hi on friday im stayin at my gf's house annd she wants me to finger her, iv neva done this before and i was just wonderin if there are any tips u can give me or like things i shouldnt do etc.
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Fingering
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how old are you?
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I think its alright if you don't know how. Honestly, I've never been turned on by the finger touching thing. It was really seeing my man enjoying the whole process and feeling his warm hand all over me.......But for tips. I'm sorry if I don't have the best advice. However my advice would be to give her some other foreplay first like kissing her sensual, warmth, and lightly sucking to give it that good feeling. Then lightly rub her all over her body, slowly let your fingers stroll down to her pussy. Rub the outer lips to feel the smooth skin. Lightly touch the clitoris( the thingy that sticks 1/2 inch out above the hole. Some girls may like the direct stimulation, some like it near it but not directly on it.Uhm...when she's wet enough insert a finger. Kinda wiggle and kinda move in and out(don't always do this because it gets kinda unstimulating) I dunno if this helps but I'm not good with the fingering subject. Just tryin' to help.
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Uh, warning sign if she's your "girlfriend" and you've never fingered her before.nonetheless, fingering is pretty much something you need to learn through experience. I gave my first my senior year of high school (started relatively late), and after five years I know some incontrovertible things.1) keep your hands clean beforehand. girls have radar for dirty hands. nails trimmed, hands washed. nothing worse than cutting her up with long nails. she'll never let you near it again.2) The most important thing to do when you're in the act is to pay attention to the signs she's giving you. Try different motions, see what she responds to. If she's quiet and motionless, that obviously is a bad sign. So don't just hammer away at her. Try different motions, with one finger or two (two max, usually, girls can't accomodate three). But if you're good, one finger is all you need...but switch up to two every once in a while. Sum: try different things, take note of what works and what doesn't.3) g-spot? don't know what to tell you. Sometimes it exists, sometimes it doesn't, sometimes you find it, sometimes you don't. you just got to keep trying. as a general rule, try to keep your fingers facing up, meaning if she's on her back, try to keep your nailside of your fingers on bottom. basically, if the vagina is a room, put your "prints" on the ceiling and the walls, and keep your nails on the floor. the best metaphor i can think of right now. rub her usually in a clockwise motionl, or you can "walk" your fingers while youre inside. just pay attention. also, don't forget to give her clitoris attention...don't panic if you don't know what im saying. The clitoris is a little nub of skin thats on the outside and above the vagina. filled with nerves, always a good spot to go, but be gentle with it.4) i can't tell you everything. most of it really will come to you naturally. I didn't really consult anyone or any books or magazines etc before i had my first encounter with it, but looking back on it, i did fine, got her to orgasm, which is the most any guy can hope for. just relax and have fun. if this girl is your "GF" and you've never fingered her before, well she hopefully should be understanding.hope it helps. later.
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Yea, i agree with everything they've said, short nails undoubtably. Ever have a girl touch you with long nails try to give you a hand job and she kinda scratches you...well they're even more sensative.... As far as what to do... if possible, good make out is a really good start, it'll get her turned on. Explore her body...just because she wants that doesn't mean thats all she wants. And when your ready, just try to listen to her. Moans=very good...look for the expression on her face too. But fingering doesn't just mean sticking your finger in, its other things to. And really, don't worry to much, just go with the flow, you'll learn fast, i did. Also, if she kinda tries to get you to do something in a different way or something, go with it, she knows what she wants lol.
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im nearly 14 and wev been goin out for about 3 or 4 weeks now. Thanks, lol i forgot to chek this before but iv just been on now and it seems i did mostly the right things, plus she was moanin which seems good aparantly. Thanks for replying