a few days ago i would say about a week my girlfriend told me that she was pregnant. when i heard it come out of her mouth i was in a state of shock. we talked about it and i felt so guilty stupid and scared. i was more scared than n e thing else. i am in my senior year in high school and have been accepted into all the colleges that i have applied to. at first i didnt know what i was going to do. all i know is that we are going to keep the baby. i just dont know how to tell my mother. i try not to think about telling her. at night i pray that its all just a bad dream. my girlfriend was going to dump me and go threw the thing by herself and let me live my life, but i refused to let her do it. i need help. how and when can i tell my mother.
-
I dont know what to do
-
Well it isn't just a bad dream, so stop praying that it is. Sit her down and tell her. ASAP. There is really no perfect time/way to tell her, but the sooner, the better.
-
there really is no right time to tell your mom.......you just need to sit her down and tell it like it is....tho i think maybe you should come to terms with it first, and it would help if you and your gf knew what you planned to do about the baby...........good luck!
-
Eh, I've never been in your posistion nor plan or hope to be but I can tell you one thing: she's not gonna go through this thing alone. I was going to reply saying dump her and continue on with your life but, that just doesn't seem right. If you have your life set-out, I'd say to dump her. But in that process, you'd be giving a living nightmare to your girlfriend.Some advice though: tell your parents soon. Letting it wait will only make it worse. They'll probably be a little, hell, maybe a lot disappointed but they're not gonna dis-own you, if that's what you're thinkin'.