Am I Too Calm About It?

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Random Question. My boyfriend is a worrywart when it comes to getting me pregnant. I'm on the bc and he sometimes uses condoms. He pulls out to...I believe chances of me getting pregnant are very slim. Everytime he frets about it. He seems to regret having sex..and he starts talking about how he thinks he may have cum inside me. I'm like I know you didn't cause if you did white stuff would leak out...but he just won't calm down. Whats up with him? How can I calm him down.But lol, even though he worries he never turns down the chance for sex

He sounds like an average guy. Maybe you could encourage him to use a condom.

Society promotes way too much an irrational fear of pregnancy. Go ahead and get married, and there should be all the less fear of pregnancy, and the proper security and family nest ready, so he can better enjoy cumming inside you.Sperm is bound to leak out of most anything, eventually. Repeated sex often finds a way around awkward, anti-life "birth control," as humans weren't even designed to use any method of "birth control." The only "safe sex" is abstinense, or marriage, the proper license for sex and making babies.Pregnancy happens. Babies happen. We should embrace and welcome the creation of human life, not fear it.

Geeez she's only a kid. Get married. LOL Is that your solution for everything? Marriage, boners and kids?

I don't think you should take what he says to heart. His views are religous not political.

Marriage (or lack or it) has nothing to do with pro-life. Pro-life has to do with responsibility.

Nobody should bring a baby into the world that they can't take care of. Granted they shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place, but... And I'm not saying I'm approving abortion, that's not the case. And adoption isn't as easy as it sounds. There is nothing wrong with birth control pills. So you don't release an egg, so what? If there's no egg released, there's nothing to fertilized. There is no death or killing or anything like that involved. The point of birth control is avoiding fertilization. That's it. It's not harming anything. Abortion or the morning after pill are the only things that actually harm an embryo or fetus. Don't be going around throwing out your theories about birth control... You obviously know nothing about it. Gosh, ingorance pisses me off.

Whoa there, boodiddle. You and I are on the same page. I never said anything opposed to birth control. I said that pro-life has to do with responsibility. If you're going to have sex, be responsible enough to prevent pregnancy before it starts unless you're trying to raise a family.Abortion is a copout, i.e. "It's not my problem."Don't jump off the handle and start calling people ignorant.Read the post again. It's simple."Marriage (or lack or it) has nothing to do with pro-life. Pro-life has to do with responsibility"

My post was for Pronatalist.

Oh, OK. It's just that it showed as a response to my post, so I thought it was my message you were responding to and I sure didn't see it as that inflammatory.

sorry, lol

your qoute Abortion is for the cop out...okay that is a load of crap, but back to the post. He should use condoms none-the-less. Nothing is 100% in this world, so just be safe. As for Abortion, how is it a cop out. If you wanna discuss this or bitch at me so i can laugh at you, send me a personal message.

You guys (everyone) should really start replying to the person who made the statement, not the last person who posted. Too much confusion with this lately.

Because abortion is murder and you have no business making a baby that you don't want. It's a cop out because it's not a form of birth control. In my opinion, it's for life threatening situations or for special circumstances. If you are grown up to have sex, be responsible for the consequences.

Sorry, I need to pay attn. better.

HAHAHA...I love this argument. It is so trivial. People seem to care more about abortion than the people who die in war. War we lose thousands and thousands. abortion would be much less. Plus i never said anything about restriction laws...and i do not wanna hear the lord side of it b/c there is one flaw in that argument. When someone brings it up I will point it out.

Ok. No offense but I am on Pro-Chioce. What the hell does it have to do with you Pro-lifes if I don't want to bear the consequences??? I mean jeez if you like to keep "life" then do your own stuff. I rather not. Because a kid is too much responsibility, its like putting a dog to sleep. I don't see you people bitching about it.Also, you talk about responsibility?!?!! DUDE! No one is responisble....don't put that shit on me. I hate the fact people are trying to ban stem cells(already dead fetus cells) and abortion. Abortion may seem inhumane but what about us eating meat? is that justified...ahve you ever seen how they make veal?They don't let the baby cow exercise or move and then they inject it with a serum that makes them die yet makes the skin remove! I don't believe that we should abort it, in fact I support it..HAHA that rhymes...Don't put your views on me, cause I will put my views on you...whether you like it or not.

I'm sorry for my earlier post. but still don't argue with me cause you won't win. UGH!! Its so contradictory...

You can't be for it in some instances and against it in others, there's no in between...you're either for it or against it.

I am not imposing my views on anyone. As for me not winning, i just gotta say, "HAHAHAHA." I am for aborttion, but there needs to be limits so that someone does not get the mindset that they can just be careless.