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hey all. well i have this big dilema/problem on my mind right now, so if you'll listen i'll tell you my story..... i was at this party about 2 weeks ago, and i was suppost to be going with my 2 mates to this house full of girls. one of my mates didnt go which sucked because this girl called 'mrs x' liked him alot..... anyway the night was excelent, managed to consume vast quantities of red wine and entice people with tales of stoned antics for hours, then it came to sleeping. 'mrs x' insisted i slept in her bed for the night, fair enough i thought at the time. anyway you can probably guess what happened (it was fucking amazing by the way), and i got up the next day to get my train and i was pleased with myself and felt pretty happy! however, we all went out on the tuesday (mostly the same people from the party) and 'mrs x' wanted nothing to do with me, barely spoke etc. i'm just not sure what to do. its been a few weeks and now she goes out with my friend, only a couple of people know and she's just left me in such an uncomfortable position, i have no idea where i stand on the whole issue and its really getting to me and my self esteem, probably why i smoked so much last week. should i ask her why she did it (she made the first move) or should i let the past be the past and forget it ever happened? the worst thing is we were friends before and now i just dont trust her or many other people, i guess i expected too much or something..... anyway opionions and help please

well I just skimmed through your post. I believe she just used you. Maybe she was slightly drunk and used you as an alternative for the guy she truly loves. Not to be mean, but I'm just being blunt. Don't take this too hard, and hopefully it was just a physical connection no emotions. Right now it seems like in the future when she has a problem with your friend she'll maybe come to you. I'm just trying to predict, I maybe wrong but this girl spells trouble..I smell it though.

I have a buddy that got himself in pretty much the same situation. Although, he regards the night with the girl as just a good night and let it go. The funny thing is the guys have an apartment together. Sometimes, I think my friends can be a little too laid back, but eh? haha. I guess I'm kinda the same way.

It doesn't sound like you can just let the past be the past. I would try talking to her. She probably didn't speak because she feels just as awkward/uncomfortable as you do.
If you two were friends before, and you knew she was interested in your friend, what did you expect? More importantly, are you going to tell your friend(the male one) that you two had sex?

my advice to you is to not forget about it. confront her about it ask her wtf is going on why is she ignoring you. does your friend know you fucked her. if not i would suggest you tell him so e can have a clue of what kinda gurl she is. but after that fuck it dont think about it you are right leave the past in the past. you shouldnt have expected to much because it was a party but to gain some of your dignity back ask her and tell her how you feel. sounds to me like it was just a one night stand and thats it be strong playa and keep being you

Sounds like she had a few drinks in her and was a bit horny. Just a one night stand. Just continue on.

i'm not sure if it was just a one off. shes always been 'nice' to me in that way and id had suspicions about her feelings for me for a while, but then it happened.....

.... i was going to tell my friend, but when i went to see him the first thing he told me was he really liked her, that put me in a difficult situation, how could i tell him then? ive decided to keep it a secret just to protect his feelings, i know it wouldnt do his self esteem any good if i told him.

never mind, at least it was a fun night!

I wish I could have caught a few of those.... damnit...

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