Ok basically I'm new to the game here. I'm almost 16 which is kinda embarrasing; but I have fingered a few girls before, but none of them had an orgasm!! I felt really akward asking what to do, and one of them hadn't done it to herself before anyway. And another told me it hurt!! In all cases they pushed my hand away like they'd had enough. I think i'm stimulating the wrong bit or something... I've read that girls like the G-spot and clit stimulated so that's what I fouces on. I dont know - is it better just to thrust with your fingers or what?? Is there something I'm doing wrong?! All guys/ladies please help me! Life's so confusing - why don't we get taught all this stuff in school?? grr...
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How do you make girls orgasm?!?!
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First, I don't think you'd like a teacher telling you how to finger a girl.Second, do not thrust it in there, not unless she asks. You don't have to get all the way in there and get the g-spot, just rim your finger around the lips and the clit, be playful, not forceful.
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no offense but that isn't really that helpful. I'm not really violent or anything like that. I just curl my fingers up when inside of them... grr I dunno. I need nitty gritty info!
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Bobalicious is correct! You're young and don't start poking around there without her permission! Be gentle and let her tell you what she likes. Every lady is different and has different likes. Fingering is an art not a prodding. Be gentle be prodigious and respect your lady. She's not a plaything!
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hey bud i do this to my girlfriend all the time and my best advice is to just rub her gently, play with her clit alot and she should love it. ever once in a while stick ur finger in slowly then start to rub her clit again. then she will tell u if she want the fingers in. most of the time they will
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In reply to:Fingering is an art not a prodding LMFAO
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Fingering is more of a skill then an art!!
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but art takes skill. So fingering unto itself is an art form that takes a lot of skill.
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Walken.. Your english is very confusing.. Get the sentence straight, lol.
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His english is fine.. maybe all the queefing is getting to you, you're becoming illiterate
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put 2-3 of your fingers together and rub her clit in tiny circle motions..she should love that...once shes starts getting wet rub her lips and kind of go in her vagina..ask her if she wants you in..and if she does GENTLY stick a few fingers in her...also try different positions with her
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Touch her naughty parts. But, like the person above me said, just rub 2-3 fingers in small circles on her clit, and try different things. See how she reacts to different things.
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Lick the thing
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Do what these guys suggest, be gentle and ask her, talk to her, find out what she likes. Let her participate in the fun... After all, she's a thinking breathing person and her reaction can be such a turn-on.
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Well, many a girl love the g-spot, and it is usually found in the wall near the servix. To find it would be somewhat hard, but would cause great pleasure. Also rub her clit every once in a while since that would give pleasure but i guess if you lessen clit action but not so much every time she feels it it would feel really good. But be careful and tend to what she want, cuz like some girls touching the cervix can be either painful or pleasuring, it depends.
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yea...if you push up to hard to get the g-spot...it could put her in pain and make the fingering less desireable...u have to be gentle with her...
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Hey I'm guessin most of these replies have been guys!!well here it is from a gals point of view, since you only 16 i'm guessin that your gals aint gonna be much older so they probably don't know what they want either, i'm a good 4 years older and im not completely sure!! but just take it slow do not go putting 2 or 3 fingures in straight away!! just one then two and if she is comfortable carry on. but the orgasm thing takes some practice you wont get it on the first go and women take on average over 30minutes to achieve one, unlike you guys!!Hope ive helped alittle!x "English Pride"
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take it nice and easy, go slow, tease her See how she likes what your doing - look at how she's reacting.Hay-J xXx
