Hi, my girlfriend and I have been having sex for a fair while now, it's all gone seemless, we were both virgins when we started so we're sure we're safe, and she's on the pill now. Because of this we've decided to not use a condom when we have sex on valentines.I'm an uncut guy, and I only started pulling my foreskin back when I started having sex. I can't say it was uncomfortably sensitive using a condom, but I guess there isn't direct rubbing.My girlfriend gets very wet, the question is though, is this going to be uncomfortable sensitive for an uncut guy? Do you reckon we SHOULD or NEED to use lube if she's wet, and how many of you use lube? Does it kill the sensation?How many cut/uncut people with girlfriends on the pill DON'T use condoms, and does it feel much better?
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First time without a condom
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why would you not use a condom? You know nothing is 100% and she could still get pregnant. I am not sure if that is the best idea to not use a condom.
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But the pill is way way safer than a condom if she takes it how she's meant to, and I know I could use both, but if that was such a risk surely they'd force every girl to go on the pill?And plus, we think its sort of romantic with skin on skin.Oh well, I guess i thought it was common for couples on the pill not to use condoms. Guess not.
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well the pill is safe, but are you prepared to have that possibility of that 1-2% chance backfiring into your face?
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That's 1-2% PER YEAR of very regular sex, isn't it? And it also takes into account human error like taking it late and stuff, the actual safety with proper use is 99.66% per year, I think.Even pill manufacturers don't say you need to use a condom after 7 days
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You shouldn't have any problem with sensitivity. The vagina when wet is very slick. Yes it may be more sensitive since you don't have the condom dulling the contact, but it shouldn't be uncomfortable.
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How do you know she's taking it correctly...how do you know she's not seeing someone else...you don't know, until you're in a committed relationship and you're able to raise a child on your own then you need to be using a condom, yes going without is more romantic in some aspects, but i wouldn't want to risk it
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me and my bf had sex for the first time without a condom two weekends ago and we both felt super stupid.. and havent done it without one since.. trust me always use a condom
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The pill is pretty freaking safe... 99.96% means only 4 people out of 1000 will get pregnant. I've been having sex with my g/f for 3 years while she's been on it. And for about 6 years with my ex-wife before that. Plus ALL my friends are either on the pill or their g/fs are and no one has ever gotten pregnant while taking the pill correctly. Things to consider though. Make sure she is taking it the correct way and hasn't missed too many days (one day might be OK on the rare occasion she misses a day, but anything more and you should wait a month or wear protection). And make sure she's been on it for at least one cycle before you have unprotected sex. She shouold be asking her doctor all this stuff anyway!!! Another issue... only you know if you feel comfortable that she hasn't been with anyone else. Think about it, if you trust her... i mean REALLY trust her, then that issue is settled. As for the sensitivity issue, I can't help. I'm cut. But i remember the first time I had sex without a condom and it was A LOT more sensitive that with one. Have fun!
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Believe me, I'm sure she hasn't. She's on 17 (yes, that's legal here in the UK), we both lost our virginity to each other only 2 months ago (believe me, it was a big thing, we waited 4 months into the relationship before we had sex, she was kind of shy about being a virgin and didn't really want to admit it, we've talked about it a lot). She's detinately taking the pill safely, she takes it every morning before school, I told her if she EVER misses a day to tell me and we'll use a condom for the next 7 days. And she is most definately not sleeping with somebody else.Why did you (poster above) feel so stupid without a condom?
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i just do not understand how people can do that. Well so much for the be safe part. Just because you NEVER KNOW....that is whole thing of safety.
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Safer Sex - Sweat Pants and some dry humping.... Or oral only, or anal... be creative....
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In reply to: 99.96% means only 4 people out of 1000 will get pregnant I don't know where you went to school, but where I come from 0.04% x 1000 = 0.4
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I sure don't want to risk that 1% chance.