I am bi, and within these last 2 years I have discovered this. when I first started truely wanting to have sex with men I attempted several times and backed out and ran. I finnaly told myself that if I wanted to find out if I liked it or wanted it I was going to have to try it. it took me a long time to finnally get the guts to go all the way with a guy, but when i did I found that I enjoy sex with both men and women. sometimes its getting over the fear of what you might feel, just to find out what it is you are feeling.