Enough with the boys...girl time.

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Hi

I have gone through many of these threads, and i'm still left with unanswered questions...
There are so many posts of straight boys who have fooled around with other boys as young teens...but it doesn't seem to be so for the girls.

I have been in a wonderful and quite sexually fulfilling relationship with a guy for 5 years (I'm a 19 year old girl) but i've always been curious about being with another girl. When i masterbate, i only ever fantasize about having sex with other girls.
Now, i'm probably the only girl i know who has never had a lesbian experience...i've never even been in a close situation. And i guess i always wonder what it would be like...i always wonder if i would go through with it. I've gone through my preteens without knowing if sex with a girl is the thing for me...One thing is for sure though, this is purely sexual. I would never ever be interested in an emotional relationship with a girl. that i'm sure.

So,
Have any other girls gone through this?
I find that it has really died down with time (i'm not as eager and curious as i used to be), does this seem to be the trend...it dies down with time?
And also, surprisingly, my boyfriend doesn't know about this (it's not a big deal...just sexual fantasies) should i tell him?

Sorry for the long post. thanks for any advice in advance. :smile:

I've been with another girl and one of my good friends has as well. I think it happens more often than we think it does...most women don't really openly discuss it.

i'm bi and i have never been with a woman, i fantasize but i havent been with one.

i was always curious but never successfully acted on it when i was young. i finally did last year, and WOW sorry i waited so long!!! really, really great. for me it's not just sex though. i love all of her.

okay, i dont know why but its always been a lot more acceptable for girls to full around with girls. and u arent thought of has bi or a lasbean it just having fun. i mean i have prolly done things with every one of my girl (friends). but only has fun. and u know what go ahead and tell ur boy friend about your fanatsy chances are he'll be more eager for you to try it then you are! it turns most guys on.=) have fun!

I should just be with a girl. They'd probably sexually please me better... i mean my current bf is hurting my pussy when he tries to find the clit, like he's rubbing it raw, and he doesn't lightly caress my body, he squeezes here and there.

i've thought about being with a girl one on one or in a three some some before.. but more so recently... but live in a small town so it wouldn't be really easy to do... would love to try tho..

one on one, definitely.

I am bi,i love being with females sexually or relationship wise.If im in a relationship with a female we still are aloud to date guys but no other girls.I love men more though i dont know why just do.

Just to post it, my gf actually told me she as well did have a lesbian experience. She did it when she was 15, she said she just got sick of boys so she started to date a girl... I guess they did some very sexual things, but in the end she said she really wanted a dick inside her and not figners or other female things.Though when her and i where dateing she actually did end up kissing a girl because the girl found her attractive... As for telling your boyfriend, it shouldn't hurt to much. But nothing can crush a guys spirits more then a girl saying "You may not be pleasing me enough". I would deffentily leave out the "I only fantasize about chicks when i masterbate".-Dan