Earlier tonight I was speaking with a real good friend of mine.She told me that she cares for one of my other friends, which I am a temporary roomate with, and that shes afraid of her feelings of caring about him.Now normally I dont have a problem with these things, but they've got a bit of history already.A couple months ago her bf broke up with her (which he did quite frequently...)and then we came by where I am today. We all got drunk. End result, they slept with eachother.Anyways, for like the next month she was over quite frequently(mainly to see me) but she would still sleep with him every so often.For the next like month or so, he brought on alot of...drama...and the situation with the 2 just wasnt working. Mainly cause he kept verbally abusing her.....Now during all this, me and my other friend(the other main roomate) had told her that he's not the right guy.In the end it was a big fiasco, and he barred her from coming over to see me for like 2 months. Then one night he up and says to me she can come back over.So she comes back over and he apoligized, meanwhile constantly making moves on her during the past month(like being in his room with her and they'll start making out.)She talks to me about it and I tell her that she doesnt have to make out with him, even if its pleasurable to her.Now she says she doesnt want a relationship right now and I believe her. However my friend says the EXACT same thing, but from his actions of late, its an obvious lie....I've seen the results of his past 2 relationships and 1 dating attempt recently, AND a dating attempt before that and the girl just stopped coming over after one night.He definately does not click with females.I just dont know what to say to her about this.....I try REAL hard not to hurt her feelings or anything.The last time I thought I hurt her feelings I cried for a good while about and even promised to make it up to her.Can someone give me advice on what I should do in this situation because I am really lost on this....I'm afraid I'll say the wrong thing and hurt her feelings.She obviously has a problem with saying no to some things(like the making out part).I want to be able to tell her that she needs to like set a limit on how much contact she shouldallow for outside relationship stuff.Ah, I'm not even sure if I'm explaining this well.... I'm just so lost on this.... can anyone please give me some advice....