I did.... But I don't consider myself to be gay at ALL , or bi for that matter, But it crossed my mind once and when I was with my best friend we talked about it and he thought about it too so we jacked off together and it was kind of okay you know.
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Ever thought about having gay sex?
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I think this is more common than you realize. Take a look around on this site and you'll find others who struggle with those thoughts, and like you, some of us have had some same sex experiences. I believe that for some of us (who are willing to admit it) there is some curiosity about other guys and their equipment, how they masturbate and things like that. Those thoughts and some experimentation don't make you gay, sure, they are gay acts but actually being gay is so much more than any of the sexual acts.
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What makes a person gay isnt who they have sex with, or who they fantasize about........it about who they fall in love with........sex is sex and in our society its all about what feels good.....same sex experimentation is common because its about good feelings......
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remember what head is leading you. the head under your belt will lead you to anything, and anyone, if it means pleasure, thats simply what its built to do. but the head on your shoulders is what decides whether or not you actual care for and love a person. its that emotional bond with someone (greater than the just friends stage) that decides the fate of your persuation.
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In reply to: I used to think about it all the time, then one day when I was at the doctor's office, the doc was plugging me from behind, and i got to thinking..."what does this all mean?, could I be gay?" Haha, HelmsmaN, that was funny ^_^To answer the question, I think that it's normal to think about sexual acts with the same sex as yourself. Thinking them doesn't make you gay, if they did, then a lot of people here (including myself) would be very gay.
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i could never see, picture, or imagine myself with another guy. but, if i was someone else, be it a guy or girl, i would have sex with me!
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I used to think about it a lot. Never acted on it. That mostly went away when I got together with my boyfriend. Still indulge in the occasional naughty thought/dream, but I mostly think about men now.