ok i have ben dating my b/f for 2 years now and im EXTREMELY JEALOUS AND INSECURE i mean its crazy. the thought of my b/f looking at other females can make me go insane...i mean everyone says how porn is a guy thing and they all do it but the fact of him looking at naked girls when im not very proud of my body makes me want to kill my self.i went threw his emails and found him tring to get a screen name to a porn site where u talk to the girls...i mean wtf? i want to die thinking about him looking at girls. he lies n tells me he doesnt .. i dont know what to do i cant take it how can i stop being so crazy? i mean where do u draw the line...looking at girls..talking to them? but the fact of the mater is u cant reall get a guy to stop can u?
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CANT TAKE IT
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Keep at it and he'll can you, so take it in stride!
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yeah..thanx that makes me feel so much better
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I'm not kidding.
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In reply to: I'm so glad it has passed and I'm on to better things. Funny thing is, she now knows the err of her ways, and knows where she went wrong. Apologized even, tried to get back to me...all that. The exact thing happened to me with my last girlfriend. She even promised she would change. Then she added that no guy wants a girl that's extremely jealous like her and she has to change anyway. BUT, she couldn't trust me and never really did, and I have a big problem with that so I didn't take her back. Besides, consequence is one of the best ways to learn and change. If you want to keep this guy, seeking change is your best bet... but change comes with time, so for the time being, grit your teeth and try not to say anything.
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Its time for a female perspective on this issue....I am a strong believer in a womans intuition. If you've got that gut feeling that something just isn't right, you gotta go with it. He lies to you, but you really know what is going on. Biting your tongue to save a relationship can come back and bite you in the ass!
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Biting your tongue to save a relationship can come back and bite you in the ass!
True... but insecurity is something that needs to be changed anyway. Not just for other people, but most of all for oneself.
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In reply to: True... but insecurity is something that needs to be changed anyway. Not just for other people, but most of all for oneself. Absolutely correct. I just read a lot of threads like this, and mostly all of the guys respond like "if you dont learn to trust he'll dump you, blah, blah, blah..." I just think sometimes the feelings of jealousy and anger are valid and justified.