OK I have a friend who likes to drink, but when she drinks she gets really, REALLY drunk. And when she gets really REALLY drunk, she just embarrasses herself. She comes onto every guy she sees to the point where they're all laughing at her and calling her a slut behind her back. She gets abusive towards anyone who tries to calm her down, she flashes herself everywhere, and yeah generally just embarrasses herself. If we just let her be and do what she wants she usually ends up in dangerous situations and/or wakes up with a headful of regrets. strangely enough, this doesn't seem to deter her.
My friends and I have tried talking to her about it, we've tried suggesting we all stop drinking and partying so much (Hard when you're 19 and living the student life), we've even tried telling her what people say about her when she's drunk. She just tells us we're bitches and being horrible to her and usually a huge fight starts.
All our other friends have given up on her and I really don't want to as she's stuck by me through a lot of shit, but I honestly don't know how to get through to her. I've tried telling her she's embarrassing herself but she just gets angry at me and tells me I'm a bitch. I'm worried to upset her too much as she's already pretty unstable and cuts herself.
Anyone else been in a similar situation and know of a technique that works?
Sorry this has been so long :scream_cat: