I just found this great community today, and i would just like to see if these pains are normal.I am uncircumcized, and with the foreskin pulled all the way back, if i touch the head, it would hurt ( if my hands were dry ) a lot. I mean, even the slightest touch will hurt it. It has gotten better these days, but i get very uncomfortable when my girlfriend performs oral on me and the foreskin is all the way down so that her mouth is actually touching my head. Vaginal sex is no problem for me, as the vagina has lubricants.Is this normal for any of you guys and what can i do so that i can not be in pain whenever my girlfriend pulls the skin back and touches it?
Anyone else have pain on the head?
Hey bud, welcome to A2A and our little community. I'm uncut too so I totally understand what you're dealing with. The head of your penis stays covered much of the time and isn't really used to alot of touching, rubbing and such. There is a simple "cure" although nothing is really wrong. The more you touch, rub and directly stimulate it, the less sensitive it'll be. Everytime you masturbate or have the chance just work with it, using lube helps lessen this some as well. In time you'll notice that it is much less sensitive (painful even) and the more incredibly pleasureable it'll be. By the way, even now oral sex is much more intense than vaginal intercourse for me. Keep in touch and join in our conversations!
Thanks for the warm welcome =)
I did notice, too, that the more stimulation that i put it through, the less likely it would hurt if i stimulate it more, but since i don't masturbate much (my girlfriend doesn't let me =P) i guess i don't get much practice time., but i'll find a way haha.
Thanks for the quick reply!
Your girlfriend doesn't let you? LOL Its your body and your penis, why give her that much control? LOL