GRRR!

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Why do young people want to have sex SO much? there's so much risk and responsibility involved in it, which is why there IS a law with an age - they're not just doing it to restrict your fun! By having sex you can get pregnant (or make someone else pregnant..) and you are just not old enough for that when you're like.. 14, 15... ACK! Its driving me mad reading all the posts on here from 12 year olds asking if they are old enough to have sex.. what would you do if you got pregnant? because it is a possiblity, even with birth control things still go wrong! It isn't just sex. would the act be worth the consequences? raaahhh calms down ok I've had my rant!

nods I agree with you completely. Kids are having sex WAY too early now. I've seen plenty of 14 -16 year olds with kids (boys and girls). I really don't think they realize the full outcome of sex. They see it only as a harmless act of passion and pleasure. That's part of it, but there are some many things to worry about. sigh

It's all part of the "now" culture.. don't worry about consequences or the future.

yay someone agrees

lol, yeah, like, Im 13 and 2 of my buddys got their v cards taken away this year. I just wouldn't do it..I will maybe when Im 17 or 18+ or marriage.

I applaud your abstinence. ^_^

I'm 17 and a virgin, completely by choice. I had a very very VERY good oppertunity back when I was 16, but I just didn't feel like I was ready. Odd, considering the amount of fantasising that I do over having sex!

I'm 18 and a virgin, not by choice though. j/kI also had a few good oppertunities when I was a little younger, but I was always too scared. I think now I'm just afraid I'll die a virgin.

Well, if you want to get rid of that fear, I live at....

Heke? tilts her head

Wha? tilts his head more

**wonders if someones head is going to fall off soon** :open_mouth:

Its not going to fal... woops!

calls ambulance in preperartionI am 19 and still a virgin. I talk to people, mostly females, that are completely envious of me still being virgin. I agree that I am stay this way until I can do it with someone I love and care about deeply. Where it is pleasure, but a way to show that we are committed to each other. I believe sex to be the ultimate bond between people. That is why I stayed away from sex until I was at least 18, but a year and half later still same guy. Hopefully I have someone that i have known for a few months and have been close to can change b/c i care about her deeply.

I've lead a life of casual sex. That said, I remember the names and faces of everyone I've been with and I hold a deep caring for them (even if they don't).wierd huh?

not weird, cute

lol...all this early sex is pointless, and they learn all too late. after something has happened.

My worst fear is that I'll get pregnant....

Weren't you guys young once too? Children don't think. They believe sex=adult. Or fun. And yes, they rather have the pleasure despite all the risk. Teens are risk takers, its not like they always planned to have sex. Some do it because of the moment. Or the relationship was always solely based on making out and so on. Its a law. It doesn't mean people will always obey it.I had sex when I was 13. Yes I was young, but I was so curious to get the first hand experience. Also I was in love with my boyfriend at that time. Later I cheated on him and broke up with him..so...lol. Can't blame no one for your mistakes but yourself.Luckily we were both clean, and I never got pregnant. I was one of the lucky ones. Some may not be as lucky.

Young once? I'm still young!! I'm only 17!!! Don't make me an adult!!!

When I was 13, I almost fingered a girl, damn my dad and his constant room-walking-into annoyance!!! But I never would have gone further, I knew that I wasn't ready, and although a lot of teens may be ready when they do it, a LOT more aren't.

But if they think they are, let them. They'll either enjoy it or not, its all up to them. :grin: