What a heartless b&$@%!!!

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I just ended a relationship/friendship with someone that I have known for sometime. I finally came to the point where I decided that my love for her would cloud me being able to help her as a friend. So I told her that I cared about her too much to do that to myself, and she said fine, I don't think we should take ever either. Now I was already a wreck b/c i cared for her, but she showed the most heartless side I have ever seen. I spend countless hours of my time helping, protecting and always advising for her in the best way possible, and I get kicked in the face. So all I gotta say is what a heartless bitch, and I feel so much better now that i do not have any obligation to her.

Thats more like a kick in the balls! I'm sorry man, its a good thing that you've got hundreds of lovely ladies here, and I'm sure one of them might live near you and give the worlds best blow jobs!!! And as soon as I find her, I'll ask her to go to your house, so just sit tight, and... buy a condom, maybe two.

but I just feel so weird, but I thought about it. She was the root of all my problems. She caused me to feel that i needed a gf and had a void i needed to fill. I just not sure how I am gonna get over it, i must have spent an average of 7-8 hours a week talking to her and walking with her, and now it is all gone. Just all gone. Gonna be a weird couple of days.

Yeah, but you've still got us ! ! ! :grin:

Sure, it'll be weird, it always is, but it ain't the end of the world, as soon as you get into a new routine everything will go back to normal, or better, you might to notice others that you never considered because this girl always distracted you.

Yeah does not matter. I just need some downtime away from her the thought of her or the thoughts of being with someone else. I just really am completely uniterested in any woman, this just is gonna kill that whole me respecting women thing. I have never disrespected a woman, EVER, but this is just. like you put," A kick in the balls"Lost Love in Love Filled WorldHow can you trustLet people take your handgive your heart to themwhen you have hadYour hand ripped offand your heart stolen

Well if you are referring to the type of energy i directed towards her, then the answer is no, but this does allow me to practice guitar again.

dude, I went through a similar thing a couple of years back with a girl, and I swore never to speak to her again....only I heard she became single, so I started talking to her again - and she did the exact same thing all over again.So as a word of warning - NEVER go back to her.

I do not plan on it. I can be very heartless when I want to, and she is gonna get a whole lot of me being a total asshole. She could come into my room naked and say she loves me. i would kick her out and close the door. She had her chance, and did not take advantage of it. She had fucking 6 months, and I had to sit through her describe her perfect guy again and again, and i had to put up with it being practically what I was. But I lied I am not sure what I would do. It would take a lot of thinking because of all of this.

Don't be an asshole, even if she was. Don't sink to her level, just ignore her. But if she realises how good you were to her and asks for you back... SCREW HER!!! Don't actually screw her, as in sex, just forget her. She had you, she lost you, its her own fault. You will move on! :grin:

That will be hard if she ever does...I had class today, she is in it, and i saw her as I was leaving and it just felt so awkward. It sucks plain and simple, but I will grow, and I just hate the whole dating shit. It is so stupid, I am terrible on dates, I am so much better when it is relaxed. I can't do it when it is a date. But a meeting makes me feel better. I just am committed to not doing anymore work for a relationship, such a waste to just have it be kicked back in your face.

yeah forget her! u have ur guitar again now!You should put all ur emotional hate into an awesum rock song then post it for us Good luck with that and future girls!

been there in that situationits not nicebut use it as a learning experienceand remember that anger is not your friendif you can learn to let any anger go it would be best

oh i am good nowi feel great

Glad to hear it Walken *hugs*

Im glad you finally understood how much of a bitch she was... Should have left her a long time ago.. hmmm those words sound like something i said

I should have listened to you. I was blind and dumb. Now I am back looking, again. It is so depressing to just want to be in a relationship with someone and you cannot have it. So I am on year 3 of looking and i have a score of 0.

Well I have been doing well not concerning myself with her and the past, but I read this today and all i can say is wow, struck a heart chord.

Find a guy who calls u beautiful instead of hot, one who calls u back when u hang up on him, one that will lie under the stars and listen to ur heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch u sleep...wait for the guy who kisses ur forehead, who wants to show u off to the whole world, who holds ur hand in front of his friends, who thinks ur just as pretty without makeup on....one who is constantly reminding u of how much he cares, and loves being with u and how hes the luckiest guy in the world to have u....The one who turns to his friends and says, "Thats her"

I was married to my ex for 10yrs before it collapsed in a black hole. Trying to help someone change for the better when they don't want to is impossible. Within 2 months I phoned up a backup chic, and we lived together for 2 months and that collapsed, but not too bad. 3 years is a long time to heal. It is hard to meet new chics if you can't free your mind of the old one. I meet my new wife from a chat line on the phone. But i've had plenty of dates through chat until I found the right one. Everytime I became more confident.

I haven't been around in a while. But I believe when I left you were talking about not getting involved for a while? Am I wrong?

yeah, this just kind of happened...So I am just going with it. I mean these women have had a positive affect. I am working out again, I am working harder, and I am having fun.