I've noticed recently that when I masterbate (once every couple days) I can easily cum (guess thats orgasming) but I used to have it... not sure how to describe it, my mind would feel completly empty and like velvet was rubbing against the inside of my skull...Does that make sense? In otherwords...great... Anyway, lately when I masterbate and cum, I just feel the sperm coming out. Its like i masterbate just for release and not for pleasure anymore.Is this normal? Is there a way to get the other sensation back?
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Masterbating without orgasm?
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I have that happen once in a while, my body just needs to get off. I found that a good fantasy can usually help and sometimes not masturbating unless I'm aroused mentally works too.
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atleast I am not alone... to me it seems to happen more and more often, I think its clearly been over a month since I've had a good session.Maybe I'm bored of masterbating? Hope not.
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Here is my 2 cents...Personally, it sounds like you may just need to give your hand/penis relationship a little vacation... Sometimes I think you guys just overdo it. I have sensed that many times men have a harder (no pun intended) time orgasming during intercourse when they masturbate frequently. Now, this would be purely anecdotal though since I really don't have a clue what it is like to be a guy!! Just been on the other end plenty of times! K
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Orgasm and ejaculation are actually two separate things, and it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation, and an ejaculation without orgasm. Usually, both occur simultaneously, and most people thing they always happen together, but that's not always true. Through practice and extensive time edging, I can make myself ejaculate without getting an orgasm. Its kind of an interesting sensation: you feel the pulsing, and get the contractions (albeit weaker), and of course see the cum flowing out. But the wave of intense pleasure isn't there. I could continue to jack off, and then the orgasm will come separately. It's kindda cool, but I usually prefer to just jack off normally and get the orgasm and ejaculation together. So it is possible you are only experiencing the ejaculation part, and not the orgasm. Its unusual to be able to separate these easily without trying. The only suggestions I have is to 1) masturbate less often - like try to go a week or longer without masturbating. 2) Try to get more mentally involved with masturbation to get more into it and turned on. Like fantasize about what turns you on, or maybe look at some porn to get you more fired up. Because a good orgasm is very much a mental thing.
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Yeah, if you stand up, pretend you are holding a woman and she has her legs around you. Particulary, I like standing up because: 1) I can actually hump into the little vagina that my hand created. 2) When I have an orgasm, my legs pretty much lose muscle ability and I almost fall down. I really have to try hard to stand up. Makes it feel good, lol. 3) Pretending a woman is hangin on to me turns me on a lot.
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i jerk off and i masturbate.
this is my classification system.
when i jerk off,its purely for release,like,grunt,its over pants back on,back to whatever i was doing before.
i feel an orgasm,but its really release,not pleasure.
masturbation on the other hand,no pun intended,is something i enjoy,my mind feels it,its pleasurable,i savour it and get enveloped in the moment.
i dont enjoy jerking off,but love masturbating.
the fromer being the more common of the two for myself. -
Under that classification, I don't think I've ever jerked off.
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Samer here