When doing 69, who's usually on top?

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Nobody wants to have insight into their parents sex life, yuck

i am all for an open relationship, but that would just be awkward is all i am saying.

My mom and I have the same relationship. We can talk about ANYTHING. My dad on the other hand has too strong of morals and religious perspective so I feel akward talking to him about sex. :\

I can talk about sex with my father or mother openly and my father will usually start going into more and more indepth things as it keeps on going, he once gave me a lecture on protection and I was 11 at the time, but it was interesting and not embarrassing.

As for my mother I asked her how to give a girl and orgasm and what does it feel like for her, and from the sound of it my dad was very very good to my mother, it was a little more then I wanted to know, but I was searching for an answer about how does a girl squirt and if there was a hole inside of her that makes it happen. I've asked her about other things and I never laugh or get shy because its just more comfortable to talk to her when she doesn't say the stork brings the baby kind of thing, I'd get the full answer.

back to the topic, the 69 sex position is easier when the guy is on the bottom because the girl usually weighs less, and is not as big around, a guy can easily eat her out and suck on her clit because it already closer to his face and the girl can stroke a guy's shaft and suck on it pretty well, deepthroating is harder so if it is tried chances are she'll gag, but for girls that already don't know how to deepthroat their man the guys won't be missing a thing.

Had my Mom walk in on my g/f and I in the 69 position. She was not happy.I like to be on top as I can get a rim-job as well. Anal play is good, once you try it, you will become a believer.

Ah, that must have really sucked... no pun intended. lol

I'd probably be so humiliated if one of my family members saw me doing a sex act.

Can someone please explain what is 69?

its when you and your partner both perform oral on each other at the same time, by lying facing opposite directions (your head, there crotch, their head, your crotch). Works best if you are both roughly the same height (damn my attraction to shorter people) it can be fun, especially if you like giving and receiving (who doesnt like receiving though?)

I prefer lying on the bottom, can generally use my tongue better without having to worry that im probing anyone's tonsils like when im on top, though generally Ill go with the flow on just about anything

thank you for the explanation - must try this!