A new urge

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recently, before I broke up with "my girl," I have been feelingurges towards females. Now, these are not typical I want to bangher because she is hot urges, it is different. I have the feeling that I need to be with a woman, and be with the intimatly, relationship wise. It is hard to explain, but it is different. Almost like I have moved into a new area of my life. I am not sure what the hell is going on, could this be a cause of being a virgin for (almost 20 years) and now the frustration is finally arising?

o0 i have no clue why thats happening(im 13) but god thats cool in a odd way

I've been feeling the same way recently, ever since I got really close to a female friend of mine. But our friendship is kinda falling apart at the moment and the urge is stronger than ever. I dunno what it is, maybe you just got so close that it was almost like a relationship, and then you reached the part where you were ready for sex.

Walken, this is great and healthy. You are almost 20 years old and have made the mature and difficult decision to not have sex. I think you're seeing one of the benifits of that now. By not getting involved physically, you have most likely grown in your ability to have a real, emotionally intimate relationship with a woman, probably much more than most guys your age. And your urges are healthy. It really is healthy sexuality, the kind that drives young men to want to be in relationships with young women. This is a beautiful thing (if I understand you correctly) and you should be proud. If I had a daughter your age, I'd send her your way!I wish you the best.

Do you have a daughter my age? :grin:

Well Damien I am honored. Now more than ever I just want to be with someone rather than to be with them physically, but this is very much a curse. While it is great in what I have done girls my age are not into the guy that will treat them well. I have noticed that a large majority say that, but would much rather be with a guy totaly based on looks, power, and if they are in a frat or something. I mean now more tham ever I believe that I have been the most attractive (I think growing my hair out some, helped).

I have also found that these urges are taking over my life. I dream about it, constantly think about it, and cannot even look at a couple with out feeling a deep feeling of envy.

Welcome to my world Walken, soon you'll start to see the real deal with all those chick flicks, and believe me, once you get yourself into those movies you will be trapped forever!!! Expect to feel a few tears coming along...

*wipes tear*
I think our little Walken is growing up

Bobalicious I am older than you, so shouldn't it be the other way?@unsupervised:Yeah it is true. I am. Errr....the more i type the more I want someone, and all my friends say is be patient, but they have no clue how it feels to be in my situation. They say do not be desperate, but I think they mean do not be desperate b/c they all think I want to have sex, but I don't. I just want a girl, that i can cudddle with, hang out with, go out with, eat with, and completely enjoy.

Walken, since when was maturity based on age?

no please not again. I am begging you.

Oh but I must, and I think I'll throw a bit of religion into the mix too!

Muwahahahaaaa!!! :grin:

anyway...I WANT A GIRL FOR MY OWN SO BAD!!!!

Then go get one tiger!

wow, chicks really dig needy guys

I have tried, and failed so many times. I usually end up as a friend b/c I am so sweet they do not want to lose me. Pisses me off b/c I am never looking for a friend.

actually, girls do tend to go for the not-so-nice guy. Many have to learn the hard way that there is little future in that. Jusy like us guys have to spend time with the not-so-nice girls.

i am usually attracted to girls that are very shallow. I have managed to change a few, but the rest just shut me down. Never gone out with any of them though.

Just face it, you're a hopeless romantic... or just hopeless.

I think I am too nice...something too out of the ordinary.