I've been struggling with this one all my life. I love men & women but have been happily married to my wife for almost 20 years. I made a choice and have not regreted it. But it does pull at me all the time as I see guys I'd like to hook up with but don't feel I can as I'm committed to my marriage. I've told my wife that I think such and such a guy is cute but have never come right out with "I like men too". In some ways it doesn't seem fair to be pulled in two directions but life is like this and no one said life is easy. So why should sex and or desire be any different. Bottom line, this is a topic that gets neglected and I would love see more discussion about it as I feel it can be more difficult as you're kinda caught between worlds when you're bi. Well, those are some of my thoughts anyway. Hope they help.
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I think i might be bi
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i disagree. a bi that knows their mind knows they are attracted to people, not men or women. grins i know many lesbians and gays who just describe bis as people who havent made up their mind yet and will sleep with anyone. and i kinda agree with them, i can probably see a time where i choose which side my bread is buttered, but not now. for now, ill just revel in my indecision grins
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damn this post is old lol
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haha :laughing:.
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Hey im bi !!!!!!!!! i need someone to chat w/ this about. If u could post some questions I'll pitch in. (I'm a girl)
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tink pm me if u want