I need an answer ppl!!

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im 13 and i was wondering if like it is bad if i have never done ANYTHING with a guy. Not even like hold hands or anything. alot of the girls my age have like made out or kissed and stuff. i feel like out of place. plz post comments!!

It is not bad. You're only 13. You have plenty of time. Enjoy your teen years.

There's nothing wrong with that In fact, it makes you pretty damn cool in my book.

13 is too young to have intercorse. That is why so many women have internal problems by starting when your body is not yet ready. As for holding hands and such...relax your time will come when soon enough. Don't feel pressured by others.

There is nothing wrong with it at all. You should be proud to be the way u r cuz ur a normal 13 year old. If i may be politically incorrect here.....the problem with this world is that girls r becoming sluts at an early age. All these girl right as they hit puberty r doin stuff with guys. And dont get me wrong it works both ways. Kids need to just be kids. Play with your PS2's go to the mall, do whatever it is that 13 year olds do. Dont worry about doin stuff with the opposite sex.

internal problems?

eh? who was that directed at, and what do u mean?

Internal problems in the vagina including cysts, precancer, period irregularities, just to name a few. I know that I can't speak for all, but 13 is too young for sex. Not to mention getting pregnant and the problems that arise from that.

that's not true, you don't get internal problems from having sex at 13, i agree though it's way to young to have sex mentally and emotionally

Amanda, I won't continue to debate this, but having a baby too young CAN cause havoc to a girls system for sure. Al I can say to her is, be safer than sorry.

In reply to: Kids need to just be kids. Play with your PS2's go to the mall, do whatever it is that 13 year olds do. Dont worry about doin stuff with the opposite sex Just a simple AMEN from the Damien corner!

...and might I add, that's my problem. I'm playing PS2 way too much and having sex way too little...and I'm 32!

In reply to: Amanda, I won't continue to debate this, but having a baby too young CAN cause havoc to a girls system for sure. Al I can say to her is, be safer than sorry. You do realize, don't you, that you totally changed your argument. Initially you were arguing that having sex too early caused internal problems. Amanda called you on that, and now your argument is that having a baby too early can cause internal problems.Can you clarify your argument for the sake of consistency?

O.K. here it is: Riding on a camel that is being chased by an elephant while your pregnant can be hazardous if you fall off. :scream_cat:

nothing to worry about yet! dont have to worry about not getting any love or lovin still your older! at 13 i think thats when most just starting to work up the courage to even kiss! dont stress over it!

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That's all well and good. But for the sake of internal validity, you need to specify if that's and African or Indian elephant, and exactly what do you mean by "riding".
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the gerbilshower corners is yellin halleluya
"""Kids need to just be kids. Play with your PS2's go to the mall, do whatever it is that 13 year olds do. Dont worry about doin stuff with the opposite sex""" :grin:

laughing @ damien

just enjoy who you are, and where your at.......who cares if you havn't done anything, like the others say its cool :smile:

That was exactly what I meant to say Whieboy, thanks for the save.