Hi! You may remember me from a while ago and my situation hasn't improved. I'm 16 in about three months time and I still can't cum or even achieve an orgasm through masturbationg with my foreskin (up & down technique).What is wrong with me? There is just no sensitivity! Should I consult a doctor or do you think the situation will ever improve? I think there may be something wrong with my testosterone or something.Once a month I have a wet dream, and the cum is usually clear. Any replies woul be gratefully appreciately
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No Sensitivity, No Orgasm & I'm A Teen!
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You keep asking this question but i don't know how anyone can help you. When you make direct contact with the glans/head, do you feel anything? Forget the forskin. I'm talking rubbing the head. Get some lube and work the head directly.
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yeah, it's all in your head....lol
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lmaoyeah his lil' head!
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Do you get hard when you stroke your penis? Does it feel good at all? If yes to either one of these, then your penis is working fine, and you do have sensitivity. And that means its a psychological thing that's preventing you from getting orgasms. The fact that you are getting wet dreams regularly means that everything is normal down there physically, and you can ejaculate and possibly are even getting orgasms during your sleep (although wet dreams don't always have orgasms - sometimes just ejaculations). Do you remember any sexual wet dreams where you had an orgasm in your sleep?When you masturbate, be sure to concentrate your stimulation on the underside of your penis just below your head, where your frenulum is. The frenulum is very sensitive and pleasurable feeling when touched, and will bring you closer to orgasm than any other part of the penis, including the head. The frenulum is best stimulated with the foreskin retracted so its exposed. When your foreskin is retracted, your frenulum will look like a web of skin, attached to just below your pee hole on the underside, like a foreskin tether. You may want to try using lube too. Don't worry about the clear cum thing - that's not uncommon at your age. It just means that not all the components of adult cum are there yet since you're still developing, or it means that you didn't notice your cum from your wet dream for a while after it was ejaculated (semen turns more clearish and thinner within about 30-45 minutes after its ejaculated).
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Cheers focus! You are the best poster on this website!!!I have actually had orgasms during my sleep that have caused wet dreams, but this is not always the case. I can feel a bit of sensitivity on my head, but why not when I masturbate with my foreskin?
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In reply to:Cheers focus! You are the best poster on this website!!! Well thank you! I appreciate that! In reply to:I have actually had orgasms during my sleep that have caused wet dreams, but this is not always the case.OK, well that's a good sign though. It's proof that everything is physically OK with all of the equipment, and you are physically able to reach orgasm and ejaculate, which is the important part. The bad news is your inability to reach orgasm and ejaculate while masturbating while awake is probably a mental issue, or something at a subconscious level that is holding you back, which can sometimes be the most difficult problems to solve, as you need to figure out why and what is holding you back. So your penis and all the other equipment is fine - its your mind that is causing the problem here. Remember, your penis is nothing without your brain. Its not your penis that gives you pleasure, its your brain getting input from the penis. In reply to: I can feel a bit of sensitivity on my head, but why not when I masturbate with my foreskin? I'm not sure what you mean by this? Are you saying your head is sensitive when your foreskin is retracted and your head is exposed, but not when the foreskin is covering it? What about the frenulum on the underside? Did you explore this area like I mentioned in my last post? How about mood? Are you horny when you masturbate? Do you get erect easily? Are you using any other stimulation mentally to get you more aroused, like thinking sexual thoughts, or looking at porn, etc? Visual aids to get you more turned on can help bring you to orgasm easier.