well, the past month has been hard..i been really nice to her this last month tho. She said i was always bein mean, but i changed in my opinion. I been really sweet and nice, sayin nothing but nice things like shes beautiful. Not because i had to, but because if made me feel better and that being nice to her and making her happy is the best feeling ever. Anyhoo, last weekend, she got grounded because she fell asleep at my house and got home at 1am. So she was grounded this weekend but my family from england came over so she wanted to meet them, she did had fun. On the way home to her house i asked if i could see her tomorrow after she finisheed her project and been to the gym, she was like "ermm yeah u can come by real quick it would be sweet" then i felt like i wasnt wanted but she was grounded to what i fort was next weekend. So today (well Saturday) she was at her friends house doin a school project from 3:15pm, till 9:30..i get home llike 9:00 from dinner and fone her..no answer i fone her again to cheak if shes just got it on silent and it goes right to her answer machine she turned off her fone. hmmm it seems weird to be doin a project till 9:30 at nite.. i fone her alot more and then at 9:50 i get through and shes in the car goin home. I ask her what she been doin and why her fone was off she says her fone was being weird and that she didnt get any fone calls from me. sometimes that happens and she doesnt get my messages, but i foned like for 40mins and no answer seemed werid cause ususaly works after 5mins if her fone freaks out. So she says it just freaked out and no fone call from me came to her. Then she gets off that topic and goes "oh im grounded till the end of march. my mum just told me" and i was like :S . and she goes "i cant see u till the end of march" and i go "are u cheatin on me" and she has a fit and dumps me, and says "i cant put up with the constant accusing of me doing something wrong wen i havnt" and this is the 2nd time this week she said that. It seemed werid how right after i asked her if she was cheatin she dumped me within 10secs of me askin her. I got bk with her and everything is OK now. It still runs through my mind tho, am i just lookin too far into it. She has been threatning to dump me if i dont get my act together for the last month. What do u guys think..sorry if this is long and boring.
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GF, bein weird? or me being stupid
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Cheating ? Maybe. Hiding something from you ? Sure as h3ll
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Meh. Many reasons she's acting like this. Maybe she's tired of this relationship, realizing she spends too much time, maybe doesn't have feelings anymore for you or cheating. I highly doubt cheating though. She could be, but why would she use the grounded excuse? I just think the situation would be different if she was cheating on you. Does she like spend a lot or talk a lot about a guy?Well I think you should just leave her. She is just wasting your time by playing games with you.
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sounds like she got laid...the "project" was probably at her boyfriends house...i dont know if im right...but its a possibility...huh?
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well maybe you guys are just really young and haven't a clue as to what you are doing!