Want to talk about my current situation.

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Hello everyone, I am new to this board. Nice to meet you all!I have known a girl since Grade 4, but for the past few weeks, I started to have feelings towards her. We say "Good Morning" to each other. But the thing is, I am the one that always start conversations, she wouldn't start talking to me if I don't start. She is a really nice person and I really hope I can get her to be my future girlfriend or something more.That's only part one...Now, I have to go back in time a little.... At the very last time of Grade 5, she get her friend to give me a note saying she have a crush on me, but I didn't react because I was young and I froze. After that, we havn't talk to each other for 4-5 years. We only started talking again this school year. I know I have done something wrong at that time, but she is really nice and very hard working towards her studies. As for me, I don't even know if I can go to University. So here is my question, should I tell her how I feel, or should I wait, or should I not even bother at all?*Also, I barely socialize at all, also my parents wouldn't let me have one, so it is really diffcult.Thank you very much!

If you like her just tell her, obviously she liked you at one point so he probably still does. And the whole university thing doesn't matter at all. Just go for it!

Thank you, but could anyone give me sugguestions as how I should approach this? I only see her for one class and she sits at the other end of where I sit. Also she barely goes on MSN.

hehe give her a note...or call her...just ask her if she wants to go out with you and explain that you liked her in grade 5 but you were stupid back then and you really still want to be with her now...and so on...and so on....

I think that's a good idea. It doesn't matter so much how you do it, so long as you do it.

Sorry about the late result guys, have been busy ever since.
I told her one night, around 12am...
She said she don't know what to say, but said she will think about it after the Final Exams.
After the Final Exam, about a week after that she replied saying she wasn't ready, I said it's ok. She kept saying sorry, but I assure her it's alright. Then we went on talking about other things.
Lately, after around 2-3 months, she keeps popping in my head here and there, and we rarely talk to each other due to different time scheduals, busy with school etc...
I just hope that if she said she is not ready at that time, she actually mean it so I can ask after school is finish... if not... then I will move on.
What do you guys think? Also, thanks for giving me confidence into saying, this is my first time. :smirk:

Hmmm... I hate it when girls "aren't ready." It could be that back in 5th grade, she just had a little attraction. It's usually different in elementary school than in high school (I'm assuming). My first girlfriend used to regret even liking me back in elementary school. We are best friends now, but it took some 6 years for her to get over it. I'd say ask her again when the semester is finished.

wow, this sounds very similiar to a recent situation that happened in my life.* I was the smartest person at my middle school, and she was the second smartist. she had a crush on me and admired my skills to beat her in almost everything in school. well i found out that she liked me cuz we rode the same bus way back then. well, didnt talk to her for a while. but towards the end of the summer, i talked to her and got to know her a little better and she still liked me. in fact she said if she got to know me better she might have sex with me. turned out she was a real horn muffin. she ended up going out with one of my pretty good friends, but she still has "feelings" for me and even contemplated cheating on her bf for me.=================================as for you, I'd try to flirt with her a little bit, be very thoughtful and understanding with her. just be yourself and let things work the way they do. I know how you feel right now because i have a crush on another girl and i want to make everything seem right. you have to hang out with her after school sometime. try to get to know her friends and be very friendly. being a tad social helps too

yeah usually when they have to think about it they are stalling. hot anime girls by the way.

Thank you everyone, I will try to talk with her, but both of us are busy, especially her. She studies A LOT. So it is best I don't bother her. But I sure will ask her when the time comes again. Thanks everyone.*and thanks for saying my sig. looks good, compiled it myself.