Why does someone randomly start talking to you after not talking to you for three months? Why does it act like nothing has changed?Long history here, but basically this girl and I had a thing, but we lived far away, and our schedules were both nightmarish, so eventually she backed off. Over the next summer she totally ignored me, and when I told her how I felt, she said she didn't want a boyfriend, proceeding to go out with the captain of her school's basketball team. After all this, about 3 months later, she calls me and we just start talking again. Anyone wanna figure out what the hell is going on in this girl's head?
Sometimes people can be fickle. Maybe there is more to the story than you know, and she had a reason for not talking to you for all that time. You never know.
You may wish to choose to ignore what I say, as I'm extremely biased at the moment.
Sounds, though, to me, that whatever it was with this sports guy fell through, and now she needs someone to make her feel good herself, without actually being a couple - i.e. you
So she'll be really nice to you, compliment you, and maybe more, but will not commit to you. This is called being a cuddle bitch - and I've been one so many times that I know the symptoms very well.
In reply to: Sounds, though, to me, that whatever it was with this sports guy fell through, and now she needs someone to make her feel good herself, without actually being a couple - i.e. you I agree with sadbuttrue, this time, I think he could be right..but since we don't know either of you personally, why not just ask her straight out?