Well me and my GF had our first sex experience... and it wasnt the ideal one... It hurt her really bad the whole time and she had no pleasure... QUOTEI'm just saying I'm not doing it for me.it's for youEND QUOTEso what do you think??? Please help!
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Doing it for me...
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She didn't get any enjoyment out of it because it was her first time... I'm sure she didn't mean anything bad by it.
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well fingering her has no effect either. it dosent feel good at all. it just hurts in spots... its like she has no real sexual feeling there...
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have you ever tried massaging her clit?
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ya just feels like im rubbing her skin to her... like i said no sexual feeling. the only thing is if i suck on her clit lightly for a short period of time. like a min or two... but other than that... Nothing.. >_<
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okay, how old is she?
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I just turned 20 and she is 19 and will be 20 later on in the year...
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difficult... can she please herself? Maybe you can buy a massaging shower head and take a shower with her, if you get my drift.
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she thinks masturbation is gross... >< she thinks me eating her out is gross too... ><
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She a nun?
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No, cannot be, nuns are married to Jesus and are forbidden to have sex. Well since she is apparently very new to sex I would ask her to sit down and spread herself so you can see and learn exactly everything about her and where her clit is, wet your finger and gently play with her labia and clit, but becareful if you poke it or grind it into her she will not like it and not want to try it anymore, and she may even be against you wanting to do it in the first place, so if she is try and relax her with kisses and plenty of foreplay. She should allow it then, but even so becareful with her. Treat her as you would a fragile rosebud, don't be harsh and quick with your movements, be fluid and gentle and watch her face as you do it, you can see if she likes it or hates it by usually looking at her. Just explore and don't think about making her have an orgasm at this point, it is just to find out what she likes and how. Eventually you will be able to finger her insides and then gently find her g-spot to give her mroe pleasure, it's about two inches inside of a woman and is very sensitive. Since she hasn't masterbated much she will not exactly know herself what it is like and how certain things feel. If you learn quickly a night of good sex will follow.
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The more you fuck her the less it'll hurt, unless your dick is made of wire wool or something After a few sessions you'll find what works and what doesent. Sex is usually painful first time. You need to get her into a dirtier mood, its always 'nice' to see a woman get herself off and if she can masturbate and she's enjoying it see where shes working it and how shes working it and basically do to her what she does to herself.Rampant Rabit comes highly recomended apparently