ok, i had a dream that worried me.....alot.my dream was that me and my best friend were hitchiking at night in the middle of winter, and a guy and his son my age picked us up. it was a one row seating thing and i sat inbetween the son and the dad. i asked if i could sit next to my friend. so i went over scooched the son and he went under me. while we were switching seats i grabbed his penis through his pants. when we finally sat down, we lookeed at each other and he kissed me on the cheek, i kissed him on the lips and we started making out. then i woke up.when i started to think about it, i was really scared. scared of what people would think about me if they knew that i had that dream and if they knew i was probably gay/bi. i kinda enjoyed the dream tho. so does that make me gay/bi?
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Confusing dream
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I'm assuming by your question that you are a guy, no?No, your dream does not make you gay or bi or anything. It's fairly common for straight men to have erotic dreams about other guys. Don't fret it.Keep in mind that you have no control over what happens in your dream. A lot of times dreams take random bits of data stored throughout the day and throw them together in some sort of wierd freaky cognitive salad. For instance. One day I call my mom to see how she's doing. That afternoon I cut my finger with a knife while slicing an apple. That night before I got to bed I watch a documentary about a murder. I might very well dream that I murdered my mother with a knife. I dreamed one night I was having sex with my sister. It was sick and I was disturbed for a couple of days. But there is no way I would ever want to do that. It's what you do in your waking hours that determine who you are.
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sry i didnt say, but i am a guy. is it also normal to want to have sex w/ a man?
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In reply to: sry i didnt say, but i am a guy. is it also normal to want to have sex w/ a man? Well, that depends on what you mean by normal. Is it common? Yeah, fairly.If you're asking if you can be a straight man and want to experiment with having sex with another man, I would say yes you can. It's curiosity. And let's just face it - and I'm saying this as a straight man - some men are hot. Wanting to try having sex does not make you gay. If you want to do it as a lifestyle, yeah, that would make you gay.Is this something you just want to try, or is that where yor sexual desires predominately lie?
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I have very strange dreams, where I get up to all kinds a stuff, and I have a lot of dreams where I am a Vampire and I go around fucking and biting people *laffin* so.......does this make me a vampire???? or Bi????? or a bi-sexual vampire????? *chuckle* Damien a little help on this one hon........
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Its normal to be curious, especially during our adolescent years. While some would say it isn't normal to think about it or actually do some same sex experimentation, I disagree. I think the curiosity is normal, and more guys than you think do some type of experimentation with other guys. Normal though means different things to different people. Main thing I'd say is that you forget about that dream, you can't control them and usually they don't mean anything!