There was this girl at work i was talking to/hooking up for awhile with, we were getting along really well, i really started to like her, but she just got out of a relationship and didn't want another one at the moment...which i distraughtly acceptedbut unfortunatly i am a very jealous personI have to sit there and work with her 4-5 times a week, and just look at her and realize what i had...and how i lost it. As if that isn't bad enough i have to constantly watch this other guy constantly hit on/flirt with her...he is a good looking guy...i think i beat him slightly..but none the less he still flirts with her and makes her laugh...i sit there and do my best to ignore thinking there's other girls but it constantly eats me up inside. I still think about her once in awhile. I can't quit my job i need the money to pay bills, and another one with that good pay is hard to find. Me and her are still friends, but we rarely flirt, we do occasionaly but not to much anymore. We dont have anything interesting to really say to each other anymore because i guess we both feel a little awkward.. i just don't know what to do...i cant stand the fact of having to sit there and watch this guy try to get with her. On top of that he treats girls like shit and is just out to fuck them..(i'v known him slightly for awhile) I dont know what to do...i hate sittin here and realizing im whining like a little bitch over this thing...any ideas?
Accepting and forgetting
I'd try talking to her. Obviously she must have liked you at one point in time, maybe she still does.
Move on. You don't want to have a relationship with someone you work with anyhow. It gets in the way of taking care of business and will make you a marginal employee. Lesson learned.