Well I’m back and I got a question. I have had my eye on a girl for some time now. She is the hottest thing under the sun, and we have some thing in common. I just can’t get her out of my mind. Well I really want to ask her out, or at least tell her how I feel about her. Well here is my problem, every time I try to even think about asking her I totally freeze up. I just can’t seem to get the courage to get up and ask her. I don’t know what to say when I ask her either. I got this fear that if she knew how I felt about her she would never talk to me again and that I would be ruined forever.This makes another problem for me. In a way I’m afraid to loose her. I know I never had her in the first place but I would hate myself forever I never told her that I liked her (liked being a major understatement). Sometimes at school I go out of my way just to see her. I find myself just staring at her from a distance. I feel like I’m a stalker of her shadow. It scares me to think that I would do something like that, but it haunts me to think that one day I may never see her again.What do I do?
What am I, and what do i do?
Oh honey! You are not stalking. This is normal for boys your age, and even grown ups. Everybody wants to see the person they like. Everybody wants to be near the person they like. Its just stalking when you live in their basement and take a sample of their hair so you'll remember them.Well anyways, its worth a try. If you ask her out, it really shouldn't hurt your friendship. Maybe you can just try to blurt it out randomly, that I love you. If she doesn't respond...she doesn't like you. If she smiles and says I do too..well lol you got your girl. I say don't put too much thought about it, don't look into her eyes when you're asking her...Or you can just give her a note during class. I highly don't advise this method because well I don't know. Ask one of her friends to ask her out for you. I mean itss not a good method but if you really wanna then do this.On the otherhand. Does she try to spend as much time with you? GOOD LUCK!