I know "talking" is an integral part of the whole dating game. You don't know if you like a person if you don't "talk" to them obviously. I'm guessing most people talk to more than one person, but for some reason it seems deceitful to me. It upset me when I found out the guy I was talking to was talking to someone else. I don't like the fact that I was kinda talking to three guys at the same time. Fortunately or (unfortunately), one of them tried to talked to me while he had a girlfriend, the hot one is talking to someone too. Even though I know all this and figire this is part of the game...I still felt deceitful. I don't know why...It really bothers me. What do you all think?
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Deceitful?
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Uhm...is it just talking? because I don't really find a big deal in just talking...its just talking unless sexual words are exchanged lol. But i don't know. Talking does upset some people because they feel like someone else is taking the special thing they share with that other someone.
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Talking to get to know each other is cool, but when they telling you stuff like,"We were meant to be together" or "I really like you a lot" and then he's talking to someone else? That hurt my feelings. I'm sure guys just talk out of their asses. When someone tells you things like that, you dont think they're talking to someone else or trying to run game.
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I would be a bit upset, but it is to be expected. If you were just talking, then there is no real committment there. And you were talking to other guys too, and there's nothing wrong with that. I can understand where you are coming from though. It does come as a shock to find out that you are not the only option on their plate.