This is a bit embarrassing, but here goes.I am a bisexual virgin, however that could be changing very soon. I'm very new to the idea of sex between two males, so I am most likely ill-prepared. I will be receiving, so what should I do for my partner before he penetrates me? I recently started shaving down there, as per his request, but what else should I do for him?Also, what should I expect, being a virgin who's never been penetrated before, not even through a toy?Thank you in advance.
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A few questions, hope they're not silly...
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Have your partner penetrate you with a finger so you'll get used to the idea of having something in that erm, area. Relax, tell them what feels good to you.
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Hehe, thanks for the information. I know this is like a lot of other posts right now, and I originally had some other questions, but I got embarrassed, and blanked.I guess I want to know how I should prepare physically before we get together to do this. Anything I should do to alter my appearance, to make things easier for him? I don't really have the privacy or means to practice, so that's out... anyway...Also, how would I make sure that I'm ready for him? is still really embarrassedSorry, as my name says... I'm really shy ^^;;;
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Ah, so you're new and into that. I recommend using a condom for this, but it depends on how well you and him have checked each other before this, doctor tests first usually, or being both virgins will make yourself have the least possible chance of getting anything.Well definately shave your hair on your ass, it is a major turn off for most guys, and also the ones under or around your testicles if you want to give him a good surprise. Becareful with a razor though, it can be hard to see and you can cut yourself fairly easily. For physical training before actually having sex, ask if he has a butt plug or anything long and slender (most likely not a dildo, but ask.). Just start small and add larger things and get used to being stretched. You could always put two or three fingers in your ass and slowly fuck yourself why masterbating to get used to it that way. For when he actually inserts himself ahve himself put on a lot of lube and put some lube on your finger and gently fuck yourself in the ass so the inside will be easier going to. Ask if he wants to do this, it will be a major turn on most likely and he can get a feel of how tight you are. When he inserts his dick into you have him enter slowly and wait for you to dilate around him so that it isn't painful. Then just let him fuck you and if he likes it squeeze yourself a bit around his cock for added pleasure. If you were a condom:He'll most likely pound into you pretty hard and then he'll suddenly stop, don't tighten up on him or move under him. Just let him enjoy it, then let him do some slow hard thrusts so he can fully enjoy himself.If you do not where a condom:You may not want him to cum inside of you first time, but depends on what your comfortable with, it is a lot better to cum inside of a nice hot ass rather then on someone's backside.Afterwards just kiss and cuddle with him and play with his dick as it softens, just as you would like to be touched and played with after a good hard ejaculation. If he is nervous or anything he may not be able to cum and just try and help him relax(talking dirty, or begging for more works well) and he will hopefully finish.
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For one i've never done either anal or men but wear protection, id guess lube would be a must and enjoy yourself.
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Thanks for the responses, and thank you so much Vivi. That answered everything I was curious/nervous about. I'll be doing my best to make that night very special.
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Dude, like, what made you decide to be the bitch? Come on man. Have some pride...
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You need to chill with remarks like those. There's nothing wrong with his choice or decision.
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yeah,no need to be embarrassed,im sure you're over that by now.yip,the essentails are there,protection,lube,and all the other stuff that the guys have said above.they're a helpful lot aren't they.yes they are.enjoy dude.
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Nick-X you are sick, you shouldn't harass others, it is their choice and he is not a bitch, good people care about each other so much they just want to express love in ways that will make their partner feel good. Besides it is kinky to be dominated by someone else at times.
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heheheh. I found Nick-Xs remark kind of funny. I think he was trying to be humorous guys.
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I didn't really find the comment offensive myself, I just take pride in being submissive more now :P
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The submissive one is the one who is really in control.
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handcuffs anyone? lol
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Nah, I break handcuffs.
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KEEWWWLL!!!
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I suppose so.
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It's a gift I tell ya. So, I take it that you're into hand cuffs?
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I love handcuffs, I put them on my gf and started playing with her, but when I started to masterbate her she begged to be let free and we made out for awhile, though i could've done a lot more with her handcuffed to the bed then i did do with her.
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I'm into restraights of all types. Never used anything more than fuzzy cuffs and hands though cuz Rob didn't want me to get hurt. How can you get hurt by velvet?