This really sucks, I don't know what to do

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I could have sex with two girls saturday night and I'm going to turn it down even though I know that I would just be a god if I did it especially since I'm a virgin and they're both virgins. See the thing is I just believe that you should lose your virginity to someone you love, but this is two girls! The only thing that's holding me back right now is future relationships and what my gf would think me losing my virginity to two girls... I mean damn the only way I wouldn't do it now was because I could say to her that I turned down sex with two girls just so I could have sex with her. What do you all think? Btw I'm 17 and they're both 16.

So all three of you are virgins? Who decided this situation? I don't think any of you should be loosing it to each other. Is some some kind of party or what?

Yeah, I agree with Amanda. Stick to your instincts on this one. This is not the way you want to lose it, nor is it how they should lose it. And as for turning it down just to use it to get laid later...that's kind of lame. Turn it down because it's the wrong thing to do. Girls will respect you for it.

That's what I was trying to say...that whoever I did fall in love with would respect me for it, I just didn't sat it right, but yeah I'm not going to have sex with them even though it'd be awesome I just can't do it, it's just totally wrong and then it'd pretty much ruin my romantics

good boy

ok, let me be the dirty birdy voice of decent. In 10 or 20 years, you will probably want to hang yourself for not taking this opportunity.The only regret that I have about being with 2 women is that it only happened once.I respect your feelings about saving your cherry for something/someone special but this is a rare and special situation.that's all I want to say about it, good luck and just do what's right for you.

Do that and learn to play lead guitar, and you'll be the coolest guy in town. But between the three of you you have zero experience. This sounds like the plot of a Woody Allen movie.

You guys should get some sex-ed books first and have a study circle. Then you can make an informed decision afterward.

and ignore unsupervised. He's generally a straight up guy, but he's wrong on this one.

no I am not! I know what of I speak.
I also play lead guitar

And you've done double duty? I certify you the coolest guy in your town.I've been with more than two women. Just not at the same time.

geeez ,yerr nice eh.

lmfao

i, oddly enough, agree a bit i dont think he should pass this up! the girl will respect him and stay with him if she supposed to, even if he didnt save himself, you will probly have sum regret but its gunna be fun as fuck

Not doing is not only good for yourself emotionally but also for the two girls involved. They're both virgins as well. None of you love each other or have deep feelings for each other. If you go through with it 3 lives will be emotionally screwed up, not just one. Also, what if the condom breaks, you're willing to gamble with pregnancy?

This is what the abstinence-only school (i.e., the federal government) says. The following were posited or implied:o sex without love or deep feelings is bado 1 male / 2 female sex will screw you up (or is it sex without love or deep feelings that will screw you up?)o condoms might not be an effective birth control methodEach may be true, but each is debatable.

I could say do it, and then again I can so don't do it, but I wont say either. But what I will say it go with your gut instinct, don't do something you feel is wrong. If you feel it's not right for you, then don't do it and you wont have any regrets. If you feel it's right for you then go for it and have fun. But don't ever do something you feel you might regret later on in life.

My personal opinion is that your virginity is something special, you only have once and once you give it away you can never give it back. Just do what's right for you.

there may be some emotional issues but to say it will screw up 3 lives is a bit much.I lost my virginity to a stranger and look how well adjusted I am!!

I don't disagree with what you said, but I could never figure out what's so magical about virginity (not having a penis penetrate the vagina, versus all of the other things you can think of), unless there's some religious angle. It seems like a big cultural deal in some places (usually religious areas).

In reply to: I lost my virginity to a stranger and look how well adjusted I am!! Exactly! Hey Supe, have you and your spawn tried to tackle Spiderman 2 yet?

In reply to: It seems like a big cultural deal in some places (usually religious areas). So would you say there is something inherently wrong with having cutlural mores, in particularly religious ones, and wanting to live by them? Everybody lives by some code, don't they?(The discussion on these boards today seem particularly stimulating and informative.)