I've been dating my bf for almost a year and a half. A couple months ago we started sleeping together. He's almost 21 and I'm 18.He's always spoiled me and treated me specially. At first I was completly in awe of this and now it's almost like i expect it. Also I find myself calling him all the time. When I'm up at school (I'm a college freshman and we have a semi long distance relationship right now) I call him on my way to classes and we talk every night.I'm afraid that I've become a nagging clingy gf. Maybe I've always been this way but I just now realized it. Because of this constant need for his attention I've also started to dominate the sex, he doesn't mind at all, but I feel bad when it feels like I'm pushing him to have sex.I dunno what to think. If I ask him if I'm naggy he'll just say no.Gah!!! guys are weird.
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Nagging gf
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To the best of my knowledge, a guy can never have too much sex, as long as its with someone they love... or anything with a hole to put themselves in.
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Have his actions towards you changed?
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I think you're right to be concerned. While he's in love he won't notice, or will easily accept it, but if you stay together and get past the head-over-heels in love stage (and it always passes) it will start to grate on him.Don't ask him if you're clingy - ask him what would be the best frequency with which you should call him. And try to have a sense of yourself as yourself, rather than having your whole sense of self-worth revolving around the attention he gives you. Partners who can stand on their own feet make the best partners.
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He's always said to just call him whenever.And don't get me wrong it's not like I'm skipping classes or going out with my friends to sit by the phone for him. I do other stuff and am serious about my classes and my hobbies and such.
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No, he's still the sweet, caring, funny guy that I started dating. Amazingly enough.
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I really dont see a problem then. As long as you're not stalking him, or waiting by the phone for him to call, its all good, lol.
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yeah, i doubt there is a problem, but i mean, realistically, at the end of the day, you are a woman, and it's in your nature to be nagging and irritating, really not much you will be able to do about it.
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sorry try again
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last, you really do add flavour to these forums. i solute youTigress86, best person to talk about this would be you bf, perhaps you can ask in a indirect fashion