It seems younger and older have bigger dicks is it possible to be just too small. I'm 25 and 4.75" erect 4.5 girth and have been dumped because of it yes she said that was why and I have had a couple of other comments about being small from others.
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What's too small
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Well it depends on what u consider to small. If you think that ur size is to small well then its to small. And when women say size doesnt matter they're full of shit, well most women at least. but none the less all u need to do is be comfortable with urself.....if u dont mind it then thats all that matters. And like i said most women think size matters, there are always the women out there who dont care just like nethng. Another way to look at it is it isnt the size....but how u use it.
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I doubt that many women will run when you first take your pants off because your dick is too small. Chances are that she will at least give you one chance to use it and that's where you have to shine. Study up on tips to give your woman the orgasm of her life and she won't care how big it is...only how soon she can get you back into bed again. Don't fret about your size. Learn to use it properly. Often guys with big dicks think that's all it takes to get a girl off. Sure, she'll probably be interested to see how much she can take, but that doesn't mean she'll be back for seconds. A big dick may get you into bed. but one that is used well will get you the encore.
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I can't say for sure but I don't think that the reason you were dumped is because of your penis size. It may have contributed.
I think that the main detrimental effect that your penis size has is that it's a blow to your confidence. You're probably lacking in confidence because of it, and you may not perform as well as if you were confident, and you may lack confidence elsewhere as well.
I think as long as you learn to know what your partner wants, learn to read her body language etc, and learn to please her (remember you don't only have to use your dick) then it will not be a problem at all. Don't place so much emphasis on your dick, and don't worry about it. Ask what she likes, and how you can please her - it's the quickest way to learn rather than fumbling around in the dark, so to speak.
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First of all, the part of the woman that really matters is pretty close to the entrance of the vagina, so 8" or 6" is no better than 4.75" in that department. Did your girlfriend just want a trophy boyfriend with a big penis? And how would she even know what's big and what's not...she been around a lot? Regardless of what she said, are you sure she had no other reason to end the relationship? I'd be really surprised if that was the whole story.
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Thanks I guess I need to build confidence. She had only been with 2 other guys but they were both larger. I just wanted to get some honest thoughts if anyone thought it is true that it is too small.
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It's a standard sized package there, and you've nothing to worry about. Just get out there and be confident, and girls will pick up on it.
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damn what is wrong with some women?! you are not too small, there's nothing wrong with you! I don't understand why some people feel the need to put people down because of their penis size... arrghh! anyway enough of my little rant, cheer up you're fine
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your not really small