I am a 19 year old guy and I have a boyfriend. All of our friends joke about us being together because we hang out alot and stuff like that. The truth is is that i think i am bisexual and this is the first time I have been with a guy. I dont know what to do. I dont know how to tell my friends or what to say. Any advice?
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My friends dont know....
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I think that depends how your friends (and the other people they will tell, which will end up being just about everyone) will react. And what does your bf think?
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He is in the same position as me. We do not know what to do. Our families dont know, and I am sure they will find out of we tell anyone. Anyone else going through something similar?
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You think you might... You need to be sure of yourself before you come out to everyone. You dont want to come out and then reliaze, your truly straight, or maybe even gay. Just have your boyfriend for the time being, until you are 100% sure. You dont have to tell anyone, you can wait! You have the rest of your life to deciede! Good luck :smile:
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"coming out" is highly over rated. Unless you feel an absolute need to. I wouldn't. Str8 people don't feel the need to go around announcing they are str8 so I don't understand why gay/les/bi feel they have to.
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ok well i am bi and i dont have a bf im a guy and i decided to tell 2 of my friends, the 2 i told were girls so they were sensative about it and they both gave me a hug, and im only telling ppl that i can trust. but my advice is, if ur close to any girls and you can really trust them, go ahead and tell them, but about guys, i havent told any of my guy friends.
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Yeah.. The guys are the ones you need to watch out for... You can tell a good girl 'friend' anything
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well, if your afraid of something, ask yourself why your afraid. is it becasue of what otheres will think of you. though you should respect other peoples perception of you, it is your life. you need to control it eventually. i personally think that you are way to young to make that decission yet. i would wait a couple of years, see how things go. then decide truely what you are