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maybe a couple of sucker punches
Are you saying that your parents hit you?
Grounded...
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maybe a couple of sucker punches
Are you saying that your parents hit you?
no. they dont come at me with a full blown fist or anyhting but ive gotten the belt and coathangers when i was younger. and the ocasianal smack upside the head when i do something wrong.
You have abusive parents. They are violent, and I'm not sure why they think locking you up for three years fixes everything. Do they think everything will magically get better when you turn 18?Out of all those siblings, you don't feel comfortable talking to any of them about what's going on with your family?Before you do anything risky, like running away or moving into a "party house", you have to talk to an adult about your situation. Is there anyone you trust that you can talk to? School counselors hear this kind of stuff all the time (you are definitely not alone), and if they're not jerks (they're usually not), they won't judge you. But you need help dealing with your family situation...it sounds pretty screwed up.Just don't get into the situation where, after you turn 18, you'll look back and say, "Man, why did I do that? I really screwed up my life!". Think before you do anything rash. Sitting in your room at least gives you time to think about a sensible next step.
If you would stop messing up, you wouldn't be in trouble... Wait till you become an adult. They dont ground you, they throw you in jail and fine you.
qazqaz, as you can see, sometimes it makes people feel good to post brief, flippant comments. It doesn't mean that they lack compassion. But you appear to have some family issues that really need to be addressed. I hope things work out.
What motivates a lonely 18-year-old boy to sound like a 10-year-old bully? Who are you trying to impress? You don't bother me or scare me, so give it up.And you're not sticking to the thread's topic. Take it to the Community Forum, if you must.
In reply to: If you would stop messing up, you wouldn't be in trouble... Wait till you become an adult. They dont ground you, they throw you in jail and fine you. Completely agree.. maybe you'll learn from this.. i had a terrible attitude with my parents when i was your age.. i got punished all the time.. now i respect my parents and i dont do stupid shit... you should know better than to steal things from people.. and my parents and myself have an amazing relationship!
Did your parents beat you?
yesi dont see what that has to do with anything?Its a matter of respect
In reply to: I want to tell my parents that im not going to be a pussy and let them push me around Gain their trust and respect and you won't get pushed around. Running away is the pussy thing to do.
In reply to:i dont see what that has to do with anything?Are we talking about the original poster or someone else? The crux of his problem (plus or minus acts of juvenile delinquincy) is that he can't communicate with his parents, who beat him. Doesn't their beating him have something to do with anything?