Ok sometimes when me and my girlfriend are making out and what not, and then i finger her, or she gives me a blowjob, i get these really bad urges were i want to sleep with her, but me and her both decided, to wait till we were a bit older (16) and i was just wondering if there is anyway to combat these beacuse they get really anoying, and they are starting to get increasingly worse, not to the point were i wanna rape her or anything beacuse i could never do that and it would kill me, anyway if anyone has any advice that would be uber appreciated.
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What is with all the urges latley
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Once you start that engine....its tough to turn it off! Those urges are normal and healthy...part of who we are sexually. Anytime you start anything sexual...touch, kissing, oral...any of that you're going to want to go further. I'd suggest that you guys figure out a way to stop some of this are the chances are pretty good that you''re not going to be able to stop one day and end up breaking your pledge. Yes, I KNOW that isn't going to be easy but it may be necessary.
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Making out, fingering, and even blow jobs are classified as foreplay. Foreplay is what leads up to sexual intercourse. It is natural that you are experiencing the urges. She would too if she were older, but it seems as if guys are programmed for intercourse before girls are. Right now she is just pleasuring you.Lance is right that unless you figure out a way to back off, you will take the next step whether it is your plan or not. You might start by agreeing that only one of you will have your pants off at a time. That makes it easier to avoid penetrating her.I'm not going to lecture you that you are too young, but I would suggest you have some condoms ready in case you can't resist sometime.
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In reply to: to wait till we were a bit older (16) LMFAO wow. You know in one way i applaude you for wanting to wait til you get older.....but 16? geez wtf is wrong with this world. Normally when you want to want till you get older you mean older then 16, just think about it you're still a kid, in my perspective kids should not be doin anything like that.
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Yeah, I'm gonna wait till I'm atleast 17!
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I'm gonna wait until I'm at least 42!
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yup, 17, your a real MAN. hell, at that age, you can do ANYTHING. why dont you go out, quit school, and find that job that makes millions, and all before the age of 18\.
come on, i see exactly what otheres are saying, 17 is very young, 18 is young. i have been tempted to have sex too, but when i figured out that i probably needed to stop. and, though painful, i broke off the relationship. the girl treated me like an object, with no respect for my morals. i loved it at the time, but now that i look back, it was the most dangerous situation i could ever have been in.
as friendly advice, keep your standards high, you will not regret it. i know exactly how hard it is to say no, infact its almost impossible. my best advice to you, find something else fun to do to get your mind off of it. good luck, and please wait until your older than 17 to have sex. (really, that is still very young). -
THANK YOU, that was perfect. Exactly what i wanted to say. And i know what you're talkin about i had the exact same situation, its really odd. But im keepin my standards high and if they dont like it well then im better off without them
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i get these really bad urges were i want to sleep with her
:scream_cat: uggg i know. i been feeling that way too. my sister brought home her rommie from college and she's hot. u could look at the bright side...lmao u do get to kiss ur girl. LMAO me, i'm just lusting onver my sis's friend. :frowning: I got NO chances LMAO!!! :scream_cat:
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I strongly advise you if you don't want to have sex stay away from sexual activities. Try playing games, or hanging out with friends. Watch a movie, or any other activities that does not involve foreplay or sex. Its hard, but if you are willing to try you can do it.
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Ummmmmmmm that was for JordansLover right?
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you are correct with that... you have NO chance at all insert evil laugh here
