ok i guess my question is does anyone have advice for first time sex. i guess this may seem a lil crazy but we dicided to do things right. im 26 and she is 24.We decided that we would wait untill marriage. well that day is coming. i know that porno sex is not going to happen the first time. im not stupid but im looking for REAL advice.I was curious if there are any mature adults that can contribute to this question. id like to add both of us are virgins. ok well if your going to be a smart mouth id rather you just say noting. thanks
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Getting married and having sex for the first time
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I don't know how much time you have, but a trip to the bookstore (or library) could be fruitful. You can find books that contain a lot of detail, with illustrations, on technique-related issues, as well other adivce and information.But in reality you have lots of time. There's no need to be an expert on the first night. As the weeks pass, you will get good at it. And you'll have plenty of time to catch up on your reading.
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Ok I'm not a mature adult, but I'm pretty sure that the first time will be enjoyable on an emotional level rather than physical. Physically it may be painful or you may not know exactly what to do, but you will discover things with your partner... which is the way it should be. You will learn off eachother, and I think instinctively know what to do. Make sure that you have enough foreplay and that she is lubricated enough.. but it is probably best to buy some lube just in case, you want to make sure it isnt overly painful! Check that she is OK throughout, make sure you are not hurting her and slow down if you are. The last thing I can really think of that might help is communicate throughout, I don't mean talking incessantly, but whisper things gently to reassure her. oh oh, and missionary is probably the best position for the first time, just make sure either you or her guide your penis in gently with your hand, otherwise you might be poking around there and making it fairly uncomfortable!! Hope everything goes well, and I'm sorry if any of the advice is useless, I try my best!!!
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That sounds good. Just relax, don't worry, if things seem difficult or strange at first. Getting to know each other physically is fun. Take it slow. You don't need to be porno stars right off the bat. It's a lot more fun to do this kind of think with someone you love. You are in a very fortunate position!
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I think you'd be better off going into it with no knowledge so that you and your wife can learn together.
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Don't expect too much on the wedding night. You probably won't have slept well the night before, and it will be at the end of a very long and stressful day, in a strange hotel that you have checked into late. You'll feel a lot better later in the honeymoon.
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THANKS THANKS. I AM VERY FORTUNATE TO HAVE FOUND A GIRL THAT FEELS THE SAME WAY I DO ABOUT WAITING. I THINK MANY MANY PEOPLE MISS OUT ON THIS IF THEY HAD TO BE HONEST. I DO ASK THOUGH IF ON THE FIRST NIGHT IS IT BETTER TO MAYBE JUST HAVE ORAL IF NUMBER ONE ITS GOIN TO BE LATE LATE LATE AND WE HAVE A EARLY EARKY FLIGHT OUT. ALSO AS ALREADY STATED IT IS GOING TO BE ROUGH ON HER NUMBER 1 BECAUSE ITS THE FIRST TIME AND NUMBER TWO ITS A STRESSFUL DAY.
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I would wait until you guys destress and can relax.
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This is going to sound strange, I know, but my wife and I also had decided to wait. On our wedding night it was almost a chore, given how tired and stressed we were. We did make up for it on our honeymoon, however. Much better then.
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Don't rush on your wedding night take ur time have u &UR GIRLdone any making out, touching ,dry humping? don't execpt porn sex at all and u will not be disappointed, just have Fun have her teach u how to touch her and u do the same for her.
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yes we have and do make out. i will say its not something we do all the time. We still want to save the best for after the wedding.