i started masturbating when i was thirteen and i am sixteen now. i have done it a lot(many days i masturbated 4 or 5 times). anyway, my problem is that lately when i have been masturbating, i am getting pains. a few months ago, one of my testicles started to hurt like hell for no reason at all. it was an unbearable pain, which went away after a few minutes. (note: i still didn't stop masturbating almost everyday on an avg. of 1-3 times) A few weeks after that, i started to get pains during the climax of masturbation. the erection(just over 6 inches) has been the same i guess. i feel the climax of the ejaculation, BUT, when i try to push the semen out the penis, i get a STRONG pain inside my penis. because of this, i cant push the semen out, but just have to let it seep out of the penis, which takes a lot more time as supposed to how it was before. in other words, i cant "shoot" the semen out of the penis, and if i do, i get a bad pain in the penis. i think the two incidents are related but am not sure. please provide me with anything anyone knows about this matter. PLEASE. i am so worried and dont know what to do. i would appreciate it so much.
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BAD MASTURBATION PAINS (NEED HELP!!!)
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You need to see a doctor.
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Dude, get yourself checked out man... Don't want to cause any further problems down the road. Maybe there is a free clinic where you live... Check into it man.. Lata, H.
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Okay no matter how embarassing it is, if this started happening to me I would HAVE to see a doctor. I'd much rather save my manhood than my pride.
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It's not even an issue of pride. Doctors see hundreds of patients. They are used to young men who masturbate and have things with their penis they need checked out. And yes, you really should get it checked out soon.
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hhahaha you americans gotta find a free clinic or pay- here we just go walk into a clinic n get checked out then leave, no cost
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yea but i dont know how to say it to my mother. the topic of masturbation isnt even in her vocabulary. its not even an issue in her life. its more like a topic we have never discussed and we will never confront one another on this topic. and like eminem18 and mole said i really do not want problems with that area in the future. and there are no clinics here that i can just go in anonymously and get it checked out
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You could say to your mother that your getting bad pains in your penis and testicles. You can then say the rest to the doctor.Is there an STD clinic around that you can use? They could help as well, even though it isn't an STD.
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I agree with Ineligible. You don't have to be specific with your mother. Just tell her you're having problems down there that you want to have a doctor check out. If you haven't had a physical exam in a while, you could also just tell your mom you want to have a physical to make sure everything is OK (you should have one every year in your teens anyway). When you get to the physical, you can tell your doctor your issues then, and your mom doesn't need to know.
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Yes, you dont have to tell your mother it's when you masturbate. Just tell her your having pains. You can even make up a little fib to make it less conspicuous if you like. For example, you could tell her you get the pains when you urinate. After you get to the doctor you can tell the doctor the rest if you can find some way to have your mother leave the room. Yes i do relize how akward it is to talk to your mother about such things, as I have had to do it myself on more than one occasion.
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well. they did a scan and told me "everything seems okay" and im telling myself no it really isnt. and it is also very true that it hurts when i urinate. it is less now, but when it hurt more before, i was even a little scared to urinate. i wish there was a pill that would solve all these problems in that area. is all this caused by my masturbating? i tried quitting masturbating, but like other people on this site, i took it as an addiction. i quit for a few days, but had to start right back up in a few days.
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Go to the doctor by yourself. What you discuss with your doctor is confidential. You need not have to tell your mother. :wink:
If you do go let us know.
Regards
Stealth
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yeah, we have a National Health Service which our taxes pay for!!!smiler
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so...anyone have any ideas for my problem. anyone think of anything tht i can do myself?
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No, this really needs professional medical attention.
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is it not only confidential, if you are a certain age?Well over here in britain, you can book confidential appointments when your 16+. What about over in america? Any different?
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I think patient doctor privelge holds true unless it's something that is harmful to the patient or to others.I could be wrong but that's what I've been told.but yeah, you really should get it checked out till the problem is fixed.
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not necessaily flukey, over here in the UK you can get confidential appointments at any age and the doctor will not inform your parents or anybody if he/she believes you fully understand the problem at hand!!! i.e. if u can understand the pros and cons.Smiler
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If it really burns when you urinate, maybe you have a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). Just a thought. Lata, H.
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This sort of reminds me of what happens to me. If I masturbate atleast 3 times in one day I get a pain so I just do it once and sometimes twice. But I think what your describing sounds a lot more painful.