Is it worth the shot?

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Okay, I met a guy. His name is Kenny and he is one of the sweetest guys a girl could ever meet. He comes into the store I work at all the time and we're always flirting and always chit chatting with each other, and I've developed quiet a crush on him. Now here is the kicker, he's 12 yrs older than I am. I'd like to get to know this man better, but I don't want to come on too strong because I have no clue whether he likes me or just flirts with me because he can. Now I was wondering if someone could give me some advice on whether I should persue this guy or just remain the flirty check out girl who likes to talk alot? What should I do? Any advice is appreciated ^_^

Katie, for me, the age limit doesn't mean anything, in fact if anything it means he will be even better...........IF men ever grow up its not till after they are 30 at least laffin What have you got to lose, except maybe missing the ONE, if you don't hugs

Thanks sis *hugs* Well he is 30 and he acts like he's 23. How can I find out if he likes me or not?

In reply to: Well he is 30 and he acts like he's 23 just think if he was 23, how old would he act then laffinhow can you find out if he likes ya.........why not just ask him to a movie or somat? I havn't done this kinda thing since i was 16, when i met my ex- husband, (and i met my fiance online LOL) so i can't be any help - but I know there will be lots of people who have good ideas hugs

Well I haven't really thought about dating a guy in about 2 yrs! I mean 2 yrs ago I didn't really have to worry about dating anyone because I was supposed to get married and when that fell through I just kind of stayed away form the dating scene. So I have no clue what I should do lol

see how much we have in common, neither of us has a clue laffinok so where are all the grown up who disperse good advice.....????? hmmmmmmm

Well the other night while I was on break I walked outside to use the payphone and while I was waiting for the operator to find a number for he me walks up and stands beside me and starts taping on a newspaper stand. Well I ignored him and he just continued to stand there and tap, tap, tap, tap... until I turned around and said hi to him. Then he just smiled and nodded his head and walked into the store. WTF?!? What's that supposed to mean? ~Sincerily yours,Clueless Girl in Texas lol

Katie I think you should just grab his crotch the next time you see him and see if he measures up....AHHAHAHAHA...jokingYou should ask him to a meal or movie or walk. Have back up plans...if it goes good have it planned to go some place private to talk. Be smart. Or you can just ask, guys will usually just tell you, I mean I would know I am one of them.

Katie, aren't you the one that agrees that older guys are sexy? anyway, like they said, just ask him to a meal, or even just coffee..never know where it will go unless you ask. Good luck.

Sis, i think the tappin things was a, say hello to me thing LOL I hope you do just go for it hon, oh and don't forget to let us know what happens *hugs*

Well next time I see him, I'm going to try my best to ask him out. crosses fingers I just hope I don't freeze up

you, freeze up, oh come on sis you could talk for your country and win gold at the olympics :grin: - you can SO do this - good luck *big hugs*