Last night before I went to bed, I masturbated which I usually do every night. I eventually went to bed and had a very strange dream. For some reason, I actually was dreaming about having sex with MY MOTHER. Thinking about it now is absolutely disgusting. I can only remember a few details about it, but I do remember that during the dream I felt a little confused with mixed emotions about what I just did, but eventually I woke up and felt relieved that it was all a dream, but I still felt a little disturbed by it. I didn't think much of it until later in the day. The more I think of it, the more realistic it seems (I know that's weird and disgusting). I look back on the dream at times and think since it seems sort of realistic, it could have actually happenned. It sounds weird, but I'm actually worried that possibly what I was dreaming may have happened. Its like the dream actually took place. I still have doubts, but I've never felt this way about a dream before. I'm actually very worried. The only thing I asked my mom is if I came in her in the middle of the night (my mom sleeps by herself except for a dog since my dad recently died)and she said no. The dream itself seems likely since beofre I went to bed, I was looking at mature porn in which some of the pictures were (not really though, just supposed to be) of mom and son having sex. The idea of having sex with my mom is something I wish I would have never thought of but it appeared in my dream that same night. The surroundings in the dream seemed pretty much like her bedroom, so now I wonder if it actually could have happened. Is it possible that I could manage to leave my room, enter my mom's, have sex with her, leave, and I wouldn't know if it happened or not and my mother would not know anyhting either? Is it all just a dream that is so disturbing that I'm over analyzing it. I know this is weird and strange but any inofrmation if this could have really happened would really help me. Thank You!
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Strange Dream Last Night
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I think you have nothing to worry about. It sounds like you understand why you would have that dream, having looked at mother/son porn. Don't read too much in to that. I think it's likely that the reason the dream seems so real probably has to do with the nature of the dream. Because you found it so disturbing, it seems more prominent than less disturbing dreams would. I think there is about a 99.99999% chance you DID NOT have sex with your mother. I really don't think you need to worry too much about this. Dreams are pretty random things most of the time.
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Yes, I once had a same like expierence. I had just watched a movie where a guy did it with his sister, and that night, I was dreaming that I did it with MY sister. When I woke up and thought about it almost had to puke and I thought that I had a perverted sick mind. For a few days I couldn't even watch at my sister, lol. But now I completely forgot about it. I just hope that I'll never get such a dream again.
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Even if it didn't actually happen to me, is it still possible to have a dream but realize that it actually happened? I understand why I would have a dream like that, but thinking about it still makes me worried. It justs seems like everything in the dream was just like in real life. I don't think I've ever sleep walked before, but I still have doubts that I could manage to leave my room and have sex with my mom with her not realizing what's going on, just staying half asleep like me. I know that after my dream, I woke relieved in my bed with all my clothes on. Is it possible for someone not wake up when someone is having sex with them? I remember reading before (I think on this site) that a guy who was sleeping naked with his girlfriend or wife or whatever, woke up with his penis inside her. That's strange.
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The chances of any two people having sex with neither of them waking up is pretty much nil.
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Besides, sleep studies have shown that dreams are just ways of sorting out and filing what happened the day before. You say you were looking at mother/son porn before bet, and that got you thinking. Sounds like your dream DID help you sort it out and you discovered how disturbing it would be if it happened to you. You didn't have sex with her, you just DREAMED that you did.
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Freud would be pretty happy that you had this dream. I can ensure you that it was only a dream. When having a dream, people usually don't move. It is called "Dream paralysis". So when people are sleepwalking, they're actually not dreaming. Quite strange, but be glad it was just a dream. Besides, it was just a dream; there's nothing you could have done about it.
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Thanks guys for the reassurance, but is there a reason why this is the only dream I've ever had where I actually don't know if it happened or not? I'm still confused about the whole thing. I know I wouldn't just wake up with urge to do somehting like that. But in the dream, my mom was in her bed, just like she was sleeping the whole time which is why I don't know if it is real or not. I could have been a dream because I remember being worried about it (in the dream) after the event took place, and then I woke up feeling relieved. I read that ten minutes after a dream, you forget 90% of it, which may explain why I can only remeber a few seconds of the dream.
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Like I said before, your intense feelings around this dream and the strange ways you find yourself remembering it and processing it, may have to do with the fact the subject matter of the dream (having sex with your mother) is so disturbing to you. I would take all that as a positive, not something to fear and worry about. You saw incest porn, had a dream about it, and realized how much the thought disgusted you. Chances are you won't be so turned on by that kind of porn next time.
Thanks for your honest question, by the way.
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Still, is it possible that I could have been half asleep or something like that and be capable of doing somehting like that? It's just that during the dream (I hope), it seemed like my mom was sleeping or at least sort of sleeping, which makes me think it actually took place. Wouldn't my mom have noticed me even if she was in a deep sleep?
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No. You've been watching too much porn. You have fantasy confused with reality. I mean, dude, wouldn't the dog have noticed?
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I don't know what else to say. You keep asking the same question and I keep giving the same answer.Repeat after me: "I did not have sex with my mom. I was looking at incest porn and it caused me to dream about it. The dream was one of those that seemed very real, and it was disturbing to me. That is all."Relax, you're fine.
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Ive had a fair share of strange, sexual dreams. I don't think you have worry. Dreams occur at random and could be about anything. Watching a scary movie might get you a nightmare, you dont want to dream about nighmares but it happens. Looking at porn could make you dream about something sexual, ofcourse you dont want to have such a strange dream but it happens once in a blue moon. It might seem that it actually happened just because dreams always seem real and you never experienced this dream before. If I had my first dream about a boogy monster, I would be sure that there is such thing as a boogy monster.
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i watched the ring and then that night i drempt about have sex wit a dead person and i cummed in my sleep so i was a lil disturbed by it but whatever life goes on and so do memorys so ull probly laught at the though about it later in life.
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Sexuality To dream about your own sexuality, signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively, it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.
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Or maybe it just meant he watched incest porno before he went to bed.
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you really have nothing to worry about, sleepwalking is one thing, but sleep sex I don't think is likely. to give an example when I was growing up I had several dreams of having sex with my mom and once she had a penis! I found these dreams disturbing and did wake up wondering what happened. one night I fell asleep watching the discovery health channel and a young boy was getting his right arm amputated, the next morning I woke up and my whole right arm hurt like it had been ripped apart. Just the other day I dreamed that somebody broke into my house and I brutally attacked him with a knife and killed him. the whole next day I was in a horrible mood thinking how could I have done such a thing, even if it was a dream how could I have done that. So ultimatly no worries mate.
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Its weird how dreams effect you. I mean sometimes when I have nightmares i figure out im dreaming and in order to wake up I kill myself and it works, done that like 5 times. Another dream when I got stabbed I woke up and the are where I got stabbed hurt and felt weird. I have a ton of weird dreams.