Hi all, I'm new.. Glad I found this place, I was too embarrassed to ask my gynocologist about this. I'm 21, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a year now, and it is frequently painful. The pain is usually deep inside, either the first few times he thrusts, or if he pushes really far in. Its not a sharp pain, its more like too much pressure? Almost like he's going to push through my abdomen wall? lol.. However, the longer we go at it, the less it hurts. And different positions affect it as well, if I'm on bottom it rarely hurts, but if I'm on top and I lean back it hurts a lot more. I'm wondering if any of you know why? Its not every time we have sex, its maybe once every 3 or 4 times. I've been thinking maybe he's hitting my cervix? But would that cause pain like that? Could he be too big for me? (yay for him haha) Or is there something wrong with me? Any thoughts are appreciated!
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Painful Sex?
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He very well could be hitting your cervix. That can cause tremendous pain.
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Is it the same for every girl to feel pain when you hit that? Me and my girlfriend have had sex to the point where im thusting against her cervix...she likes the way it feels and she cums alot after that...
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I don't know how it feels for other girls, but it hurts for me. (if he really is hitting my cervix) Its not a massive pain though, its really hard to describe. I just tell him he's gotta not push so far in, or so hard. Its definitely NOT a pleasurable thing though.. it wouldn't get me off.
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for me, when my man hits my cervix it... normally really aches and hurts, but sometimes if im really into the sex it can actually be quite pleasurable ...in some warped sorta way lol
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He could be hitting your cervix, when mine gets hit it usually isn't that painful. But why not talk to the gyno, they might discover that your uterus is tilted or somthing, tilt is not too uncommon, or unhealthy, but if that is it, then it could help you with your positions so that it doesn't hurt you anymore.