My Friend Is Gay

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ok so i was tought to respect ppl no matter if their gay/straight/lez/bi or whatever ok simy friend he's gay ok so yeah i talk to him on the phone and plus he's in my gym class im a senior in high school and he is too but when i talk to him i think he's trying to come on to me sometimes well he say's things like i heard you and you gf are having a fight are you going to break up with her? you look nice today, can i sit next to you, and he gets really jealous when he see me with me gf well what should i do because i have a gf plus we have graduation i dont wanna stop being his friend because of this should i tell him how i fell? or what should i do? PLEASE ANY ADVICE WILL BE GOOD.

Maybe he is secretly bi and is really after your girlfriend?

I suggest that you just ignore it unless he actually makes some sort a move on you. Which he most likely won't, whether he likes you or not, if you are in a relationship the same rules apply.

I guess you have to just deal with it, i mean be nice to him, and you have a girfriend, just treat him like a friend i guess.

Take it as a compliment.

i have dealt with many situations like that too. one thing that i admire about most gay men is that they are respectful when asked. if he is bugging you in a certain way, simply confront him blatantly. say something like, dude this is pissing me off. be kind, be gentle, but be firm. if he doesnt get the firm message that something is wrong, he will think that you like it. hope that helps, PM if you have questions.

come right ask him if he has the hots for you? If he says yes tell him you are flattered but your into girls unless you secretly want to try having sex with this or any other guy.

ok wait i dont have the hots for this guy or any other guy i love my gf so much she's my high school sweetheart and he a friend that came out in the open three months ago and thanks to everyone else you guys are alot of help.

i think he ment u should ask him if hes having an eye on you, and ifso tell him ur into girls and not into boys D:

give it a shot.. don't knock it till you tried it!

^ Agreeded.Although it's probably not very helpful to op.