me and my bf have tryed to have sex, can find my hole and eveyr thing just it wont go in, tryed a few times and now im confused, the pain isnt really a problem cause i no its gonna hurt, every time we tryed it hurt loads but there no way its gonna go in, i dont no if im not turned on enough and that im not wet enough, or that i need a lubrican, or that ive got a tight hole or if im a mutant, have any of you got any ideas?
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Help
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Has he fingered you before? Have you fingered yourself? I've heard of this happening a few times. If you two have messed around with that area already before, you may want to try more foreplay, helps loosen ya up.
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never been fingered before dont like the idea of it and dont really masterbate, we just jumped to the idea of sex ( i kinda liked the idea sorry if u dissagree). was turned on and every thing, do you think we/i should "explore" that area more?
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I think YOU need to explore that are more. You don't sound ready for sex.
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yes, exploring is good.
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You really need to know your own body before you let someone else try to know it.
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Yes, very good point Amanda. I guess I should take that advice too. :wink:
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If you keep having problems go see your doctor. We had a girl who couldnt even get a tampon in. A lot of times your body involuntarily tightens up in that area-many times with females that have had some type of sexual abuse in their past.