Im ugly and want to have sex/get laid with a girl

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Railing against the nasty U.K. women is as useful as railing against the crappy English weather. There's no way you or anyone else will change either one.Why don't you test your "I'm too ugly" theory by going to a costume party? Dress in a getup that includes covering your face. Then hit on some women. See if that makes a difference. If they don't all fall at your feet, you'll have to reevaluate some of your ideas.

I don't why people care that girls are shallow. Enless, they have no reason to be it. A hot bitch has every right to want to date someone good looking and not date someone that is not. If you had Standford crudentials would you work at McDonald or at Miscrosoft in a management position. It can relate in anyway. Also, guys are also superficial, I would date a bitch that wasn't hot and many guys feel the same way.

Guys are superficial?

Shallow, same shit!

It looks like everyone is shallow. The human condition sucks.

In reply to: Railing against the nasty U.K. women is as useful as railing against the crappy English weather. There's no way you or anyone else will change either one. Ok so the weather is sometimes crappy, but i disagree with the uk women being crappy LOL

yo to me,you must be seriously ugly or just a loser. What people said is true because i use to just chichat and tlak and hang out with this girl and people didnt think she was fine and i didnt really think so either but later on as we got close she seemed like the most beautiful girl in the world and all the guys said i had bad taste. Yo if you have a big penis you will go far but im guessing you lack that too

"Long term" and "big penis" are irrelevant (unless you're suggesting that he try to hook up at a nudist colony). He claims that he can't even get started.

The only thing I can tell you is something every other woman on here has told you, it's not about the looks, it's about the personality my friend. I don't care if you're 6 foot tall with wash board abs or if you're 5'2 with a doughie center, you wont get very far with a girl if you don't have a good personality and some self confidence. I have some very good looking friends but would I date them given the chance? No because they have the worst type of personalities which makes them look very ugly to me. Some of my female friends have told me to date this really good friend of mine named Andy (and I'll admit he's a very nice looking fellow) but I just can't do it because he is so rude and he has no personality what so ever and it makes him ugly in my eyes. I would rather be with a guy who has a brain and an amazing personality than a guy who is nothing but eye candy. You really have a poor self image of yourself, I suggest you seek professional help, you really need to boost your confidence. You said you don't want plastic surgery, well I agree, you don't need it. You really seem like a great guy, you just need a confidence boost. Not every girl is superficial or shallow. I think you're just so caught up looking at the asshats that you're not noticing the really nice girls who are actually looking at you.

oh yeah, another point i want to make is this. theres this site called FaceParty, which is a dating site:www.faceparty.comupon scrolling though and studying the profiles of the young women of ages 17-19, 20-25 etc. have you noticed how mostly all of them have put things like "sexi", "tall dark and handsome", "fit", "buff", "good lukin", "handsome", "buff bod", "sxc body" etc etc. under the 'Perfect Partner' catagory? HOWEVER if you look through the young guys profile you'll notice they mostly put more reasonable non-shallow comments like "good personality", "easy to talk to", makes me laugh", "easy to get on with", "sense of humour", "GSOH", "cool to be with", etc...you rarely get comments from guys like 'bit tits', 'fit', 'nice legs', 'pretty' etc etc do you?A reflection of 95% of teen girls/young women now?

wow and that is such a reliable test on personalities!the guys are putting what they think the girls wanna hear/readthe girls are putting what the boys wanna hear/readall in all its a load of rubbish and hon, the way you talk about women, you don't fucking deserve a girlfriend.

okay sorry fair enough...that was written in anger rather than fact...sorry for the ignorance.

no, im sorry if that came across bitchy and nasty, i had a root pulled at the dentist and im a bit ratty cos of the pain, but what i said is true, you can't judge how girls/women think cos of stupid things like that website, cos they are only saying what they want each other to hear, ALL, the women on here have said the same thing hon, its not just looks its personality and being a nice fun person, you don't sound so bad hon, if only you had a little more confidence, and realise that people will like you for you, and not for how you look.

Katie Lou, why do you have really good friends who look nice, but are rude and have no personality?

I have them as friends because I grew up with them and I've been through a whole hell of a lot with them, and I'm not going to give up on them now.

I've breifly read through this post, time for me to throw my cards on the table.I'm not going to lie, looks to play a part when a woman is looking for a man but it certainly isn't the be all and end all. At 25 looks certainly don't play as big a part as you think.Your too negitive man, lets face it. Would you be attracted to someone who doesen't even like themselves. If you dont like yourself how can you expect other people to?Enough of the moping around, time to pull your finger out. I dont consider myself a great looking guy, im ok looking and i feel that other people think i am better looking than i think i am myself so remember that. Although when you look in the mirror at the facial features you have you dont like, do you generally look at other people the same? Ie, if you see a girl do you think "hmm shes got a funny nose"?Ya don't. Your seriously overanalysing yourself and it really is a self esteem killer. When you look at yourself in the mirror, take 4 steps back, look to the side then look back at yourself but see yourself as a whole package. It allows you to see yourself from a different perspective coz right up close, not many people look good due to imperfections. Also think that most people aren't happy with themselves, even models, the'll look at themselves and think there not as good as they dreampt the'd be.At the end of the day theres little you can do with what you've got but accept what you've been given. If you look like a scrawny geek, goto the gym, if your a fatty...goto the gym. The gym is your friend (So they say, i hate the gym and working too hard but it works and its proven). Get a new wardrobe. Get some sharp clothes, pick clothes which accent your best features, if you've got broad shoulders, wear something that accents them, im a skinny guy so i always wear light jackets, they make me look bigger. If your pale dont wear white soz it makes you look even paler, wear black. Get a cool hairstyle. We live in the times of the 'Metrosexual', a strait person who cares about their appearence, reduce emphasis on your flaws.At the end of the day if you feel good due to having nice clothes buff physique, good job, good friends etc it will show. Feeling good about yourself is the key as its the key to confidence. Accept your face, prehaps some of your features appear cute, bet you'd find most people find shrek kinda cute and everyone is different and looking for different things.Also i think your attitude is a bit poor. Women can usually smell a guy looking for a fuck, especially if they are fuckable and they know it. Also it is a fact that personallity is key. It comes down to primal instinct. In the caveman days men looked for attractive women, this is because attractive women's offspring would be more attractive to the next generation who would in turn carry on his genes. Women looked for a MAN. Someone who was strong, confident. The'd have to look after the woman, kill dinner and protect the family, they were looking for security, good looking men tend to have the confidence but its usually the ugly guys at the top with the best women.Just remember that nothing has changed, from a evolutionary point of view not much has changed.As a man the first think i look for in a woman is their looks, as men are just like that why would we expect women to think differently? Men and woman really are different. Ask a woman what they look for in a man features will be the thing the'll mention; "nice eyes/smile/hair"Just because you dont have the package doesent mean you dont have attractive features.Theres one guy i know, hes fat, ginger and going thin on top, hes only 21! Hes loaded with charisma hes an ugly fucker and personally i think hes a dick but he has had sex with several women i know who are pretty attractive so if he can do it, and mate, seriously, he is one ugly fucker, you can.Lastly, check this site: www.fastseduction.com .I found that although i was already moderately sucessful some of the stuff i read from there made me see things from a different and more enlightened light. Its not a guide to get laid but a guide of philosophies and ideas from different people on how to attract women. Seriously its a great help!I've just given lots of examples of random crap here i hope you realise that all is not lost and if your willing to make the effort and dont give up on yourself theres a world of attractive women, each one looking for something else, someone new, someone out to give one (or many) girl(s) a great experiance. Make sure that someone is you.

Get drunk/high then go looking for girls

Check this site out:www.beautifulpeople.netThat is a site which only lets 'beautiful people' join. The deal is you post your picture, and the current members vote on you, if your deemed ugly, your not allowed to join, if your voted beautiful, you get membership. Icing on the cake isn't it?

Look, on the other hand, at people who have achieved great things, and see what an odd assortment of faces they have.

I'm sure all the pictures are really those of the posters--not. And you can make anyone look lovely if you mess around with their photo long enough in an image editing program. Naive you are, mate.But in reality, you're a shallow sack of crap, just like all the people you're criticizing. You, my friend, are a narcissist. You are obsessed with your looks and what other people think about you.You may look like a rats ass, but there are lots of people in the world getting their limbs blown off, starving, getting raped, dying of malaria, etc. All you can do is feel sorry for yourself and rail at the world and the beautiful people and the unfairness of it all.That is very pathetic.