SteveA has a very good point....But, lets get one thing straight since you were venting and people were responding heres my two cents.I had a buddy who complianed about the same things you do. So here is my advice:The people you are after and the places you are in are the reason. There is only one way to judge people at bars and clubs. First impressions and looks. Therefore if you dont make a first impression thats good, you will lose because you say you dont have the looks. Secondly, its about personality, some of the most famous rakes of the worlds were not good looking people by any means. But they knew how to act, speak, and charm. Reality- If your sole goal is to get laid, you will fail. Sex for sex sake is totally instinctual and looks oriented. If you want to be a rake get your a$$ out of the bars...
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Im ugly and want to have sex/get laid with a girl
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ok why do you keep going to pathetic sites like that, hell have you nothing else to do but look for stuff to make yourself feel worse!We have all said that a great personality is, at the end of the day, what will get you a woman, so stop it with the 'woe is me' crap, and trying to find STUPID sites to back up your viewpoint that only the beautiful people in life find love and happiness its SO wrong!People who post on sites like that, are probably shallow and as exciting as mud, its REAL people, people with different characters, faces, body types, viewpoints etc etc that you want to go and find, not pumped up wanna be models - have you noticed anyone who is a model ALWAYS makes it known, they can't just be themselves, they are (label) a model, its sad..............woah a bit of a rant there sorry.Bottom line, stop looking at sites about beautiful boring people and go and find some great 'normal' people to hang around with hon, hugs
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Bone a fat chick
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~~~Brillian Post~~~
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Yo Minger. You should really join a church. You will feel better and maybe even gain some confident. The people there should be friendly and warm,doesn't matter if your Brad Pitt or not. God will help you(not with the sex)but just life if you atleast put somewhat of an effort.
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God is the S.O.B. who made him so ugly in the first place. You might as well suggest he find some hallucinogenic drugs.
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Not funny.
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But not false either.
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And it's still not funny. =\I thought you didn't believe in a higher deity though Steve...now I'm confused.
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It was addressed to the folks who think that God controls and fixes everything, but whose answer to the endless list of things that are screwed up is that "God works in mysterious ways". I could have put "If you believe in God and think that that solves everything..." in front, but you know what I mean.
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He can control everything and he can fix everything but that doesn't mean he's going to. It's got to do with the whole free will thing.
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I had in mind the guy who posted yesterday (on another thread) that everything is pre-destined. That means that there's no free will, which means, What's the point of it all? He also wished the heavens to rain down on my head. :wink:
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Maybe becoming an Epicurean will be better than listening to Nietzsche.
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Epicurus had it going on; Nietzsche is way too grim. Voltaire was amusing and Bertrand Russel was pretty much on target. I'm an epicurean sybarite, but not a Corinthian. Yet Ineligable the Moderator thinks we can learn from asceticism...go figure.
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Good Stuff! I prefer Epictetus myself. I guess it's that Stoicism seems better fit to deal with consistant BS that life likes to sling. But, the Epicureans do make certain aspects of life very very interesting. Or maybe, im just a plain ol' Cynic? evil grinHeh, who knows....
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In reply to: Bone a fat chick I'm sorry, but just because a woman may not have a stick figure, doesn't mean she doesn't have her standards. I'm sorry, but if you don't have a personality, you're shallow, there's nothing between your ears but air, you're not going to get in my pants plain and simple. Oh btw, this is comming from a fat chick .
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Okay, any woman telling you its ALL about the personality is full of crap...if you're ugly then personality ain't gonna matter...think about it does a guy say wow she's got a wonderful personality I think I'll do her...even though she's 5'4 200 pds...heck noI have ugly guy friends and they ALL have hot wifes...now how did they get them...the ugly guys: 1)have SOME muscles 2)funny as hell; comedians practicallySo, get some humor and bulk up...or get richIf you consider yourself ugly, its going to come out in your actions when your around people...my advice, get you some nice clothes and shoes...dress better than everybody else...a lady ALWAYS notices a guy that dresses nice...Smiling is your greatest weapon against a woman, if your teeth are good...How are your teeth man? What do they look like?
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OMFG....
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In reply to:Okay, any woman telling you its ALL about the personality is full of crap..I was one of the women who told him that, are you gonna tell me im full of crap?In reply to:if you're ugly then personality ain't gonna matter..Thats a fucking stupid comment, you could class my fiance as ugly but hes a great guy, I have been out with some hot guys, and never been on a second date with em cos they are SO boring, and uninteresting. Sorry but your wrong.In reply to:think about it does a guy say wow she's got a wonderful personality I think I'll do her...even though she's 5'4 200 pds...heck no Your right about that, you know why, cos men are more shallow than women and judge by looks first, rather than getting to know a person, well young guys do anyway. Oh and the 'think I will do her' quote really says it all sighI think if i wanted an opinion on what men thought about me, i would listen to the men, not the women, how come when men ask for opinions on what women think, its the women they don't listen to!
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Is there anyone out there that hasn't been shattered with insults?Quit hiding behind ugly excuses. How about making a commitment to be a beautiful person?
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