hey, I recently got up "some" courage to ask a girl out. No, I didn't do it to her face. I don't think Id be able to do something like that. So I resorted to none other than, myspace. I sent her a message through that. I didn't want it to seem weird or anything so in a nutshell I said something similar to "I really like you and want to get to know you better" along those lines. Here's the problem. On myspace you can check to see if someone read your message, she read it. It's been almost a month, she still hasn't replied (I'm not anticipating one anymore) and sometimes I see her at school and Ill talk to her for a little bit and she acts like nothing happened.Is she implying something? What is my next move?Thanks everyone,
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Girl help
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It might well mean that she doesn't think of you that way but didn't want to hurt your feelings; but it could just be that she wants you to do something more definite in real life. Part of the trouble was that there wasn't a definite question in it that required an answer - it was just a statement. Girls generally expect the guy to come up with a definite suggestion, such as seeing a particular movie at a particular day and time. Once you've made the suggestion she can negotiate changes, but they like a particular starting-point. For them to have to work out dates and times and details seems like gormlessness on your part.
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Something similar happened to me but she told me that she was talking to another guy and that she didnt want our conversation to ruin our friendship (this was through texting on the phone about a month ago) and now shes like touchey feely with me and giving me massages and shit like that. My friend tells me she does that because she knows i like her, but it pisses me off because shes been around the block (if you know what i mean) and acts like that with a bunch of guys so i dont think it means somethin. Does it?