How do i reach orgasm through anal masturbation. I can't seem to find prostate... I just can't seem to get much anal pleasure without jacking off...
Any advice?
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Self Anal Simulation
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You'll know your prostate when you've found it. Insert your finger in your anus and move towards the front or just under the base of your penis. The prostate is a walnut sized structure, if you stimulate it and rub it you'll experience quite the orgasm/ejaculation while masturbating. Some guys can stimulate it enough so that they ejaculate without masturbating, I've never been able to do that, but do enjoy stimulating it while masturbating. And before anyone even goes there...this does not make me gay...or anyone else for that matter.
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It's perfectly normal if you can't climax from prostate stimulation alone. I could (and did) rub mine for 15 minutes straight and still feel no pressure building up. However, stimulating it while also stoking my penis does work wonders. It's all about finding what's right for you, so don't be afraid to experiment.
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Personally, I need to have some kind of penis stimulation while pleasuring my ass to be able to orgasm. That's not to say that anal masturbation alone doesn't feel good, because it sure as heck does, but it's not the same kind of pleasure at all as stroking my penis.I don't know how much you know about anal stimulation, but here's how I do it. I usually start by cleaning my anus with a hot soapy towel; the heat helps me to relax my anus and I usually get pretty hot just by stroking/rubbing my anus like that. After a few minutes like that, I usually have a rock hard erection, which is a good sign that my body is enjoying the feelings After that, I like to lie on my back and to spread my legs. I always use a bit of KY on a finger to start things. I don't know how much you know about anal sex but you should know that it's all about patience, relaxing and lube! Never by afraid to use as much lube as necessary, always be patient and go at your body's rythm and it's imperative that you relax as much as possible.I start off with a single finger. I push it in very slowly, getting used to the feeling of being penetrated. Once I'm in about an inch, I get the feeling that a bowel movement is coming, which is perfectly normal. That's because your touching nerves that are usually activated when feces are about to come out, only this time it's going the other way. In time, you get used to the feeling and might find it very exciting. The trick is to go slowly, always breath well and relax every few second until your ass gets used to having something inside that's moving. After about 15 minutes, I'm usually comfortable enough to go further.Sometimes I like to finger, first starting at a steady pace and gradually getting faster and faster while also stimulating my penis. That usually gives me an incredible sensation in my anus, like it's almost on fire from being stimulated, becoming almost painful which usually means I have to stop for a few seconds before starting again. Orgasms obtained this way are usually pretty strong.When I have lots of time, I try to finger myself with two or even three fingers. Of course, as always, patience, lube and relaxing are the key. I'll admit that getting in that second, or worse, third finger, is sometimes impossible even with relaxation. When my anus is just too tight, I usually start contracting my muscles as if I was expulsing feces (of course, try and make sure there are no feces coming for that). When you do that, your anus becomes a lot more relaxed (more so than you would achieve consciously) and pushing those extra fingers become a lot easier. Remember, if you feel any pain, you should stop, because you're not doing it right. I can't tell you the incredible feeling of having three fingers in your ass when having an orgasm. It's feel a lot stronger than normal if only because your anus is pulsating strongly around a large mass (your fingers).On rare occasions will I actually try to stimulate my prostate, because I don't find it very rewarding personally. I assume you already know how to find it (it's usually a small lump in your rectum on the side of the penis). I usually rub it slowly at first and increasingly harder while stimulating my penis. I'll admit that at first, pressing hard on the inside of your rectum feels weird because you don't really feel the pressure as such, and you might be afraid of hurting something. Just go at your rythm and listen to how your body reacts. When I get close to a climax, I can feel the prostate suddenly harden under my finger which feels very nice and makes the orgasm stronger.In any case, when I have the time/place/equipment (lube), I try to include some anal stimulation while masturbating, because once you've tasted it, penis stimulation alone feels kinda dull and plain. Have fun