I was wondering if its possible to be to availible to your man. for instance I never say no to sex (I start it alot myself) and am always willing to give a BJ (usually don't need to be asked to do that either). My problem is I had an ex tell me I ruined our relatoinship because by being too into sex I took away the challage that makes men stay intested. According to him women should play hard to get . Now that I'm in a good rellationship i don't want to do that again. SO what I'd like to know is how the guys feel about this.
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Do guys need a challenge?
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Just be available he need you and he'll do the same.
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I think its good to be open with the guy. Listen to what he wants just as he should listen to what you want. Dont be to available to him but dont be prude. Basically balance everything out and you shoudl be fine. And dont make a relationship all about sex stuff. If you want it to last you need to focus on emotional things to
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I totally agree that focusing just on sex is the wrong way to go. We have all the emotoinally stuff pretty well together and seem to be doing great, iIjust don't want to mess it up like I did the last one. Thanks guys for your replies.
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Fuck that shit, I'm a guy and my gf is equally horny if not more horny than me. If we spend an entire day together we'll fuck at least 5 times (the last one is late at night and we both pass out face first). If you're horny the have sex, that's that.