hey guyz first time and hopefully not the last post here...alright thers this girl that i like and i asked her out a few weeks ago but she never wrote me back and a few days ago i saw her in the hall and she started smiling at me so i wrote her another note and told her to call me that night... unfortunatly she called me from a friends house so when i went to call her back later that night her friend picked up and said it wasnt the right number so i asked her for the girl that i asked outs # but she said she was told not to give it to me by her...so i was wondering why she's doing this and/or if she might just be testing me.. thx for ur help
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Help plz...
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She may not be very interested, or she may think you're not being serious enough. A first request for a date really needs the personal touch if at all possible - not a note or even a phone call - you should screw up your courage and ask her personally, at a time when the two of you are reasonably alone.
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She just doesn't sound interested. Simplicity.
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From what I can tell, she's not interested in you and is just having a little fun. hums to the tune of the Cyndi Lauper song
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hey guys well i did what ineligible said to do and now we r goin out friday night i guess that she was testin me cause when we got the chance to talk today she apologized for not giving me her # or writin me back thx for the help guys
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NEVER do notes mate, its certain failure in most cases. Its all about confidence, i think i've written to about 5 posts like yours on how to 'ask out' or whatever girls, have a look on some similar posts for stuff. I'd say if you show your cocky and funny as well as confident your in with a chance, writing notes just makes you look like a pussy.