When i was very little, till i was 11 or 12, my brother had made me do things and my dad on a constant bases asked me if he did. I always said no, and now my dad thinks i have this great relationship with me brother and asked him to come stay are our house. I really dont feel comfortable with this. he is 24 now, and i dont think anything has changed. When is it to late to tell my dad to stop all this from happening?
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When is it to late
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It's never too late to tell, Java_Addict.
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Hon you have to tell, its never too late to tell anyone about stuff like that, it will be really really hard, but you need to do it *big hug*
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Shit. Am I the only persn that hasn't gotten a *big hug* around here? just kidding
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It is never too late. You need to tell someone and your dad already suspected something so you know he will belive you. It is going to be hard but if he is/was doing this to you he may be doing it to someone else or their children.let us know how it turns out.
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just out of interest, what is the age difference between you?
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5 years
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so that would have made your bro.. 17ish when he was abusin an 11-12 year old? I think you should tell your dad...
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He moved when i was 12, he did it well before then up until i was 12, i havent seen him since he left.
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Your father apparently already suspected things long ago. If you are very uncomfortable being around this guy, then let your father know why.
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i aggree with them tell your father and keep us posted
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I know i need to tell him now, but im just, i just, sort of cant find the right time to do it. i mean, he's been so happy lately. am i being completely stupid?
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WOW! It will be one of the HARDEST things you ever do, but you can do it, and it will work out. Like the others have already said, your dad already suspected, so I doubt you will cause a problem with him, it will come back to the brother who deserves it. And your brother was old enough, what if he IS doing it to someone else now? Someone has to step up to the plate, and it sounds like your dad will back you. Chin up sweety, you can do it.